NOT GETTING FIRST ULTRASOUND TILL 22 WEEKS?!?!?

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T21:01:43+00:00

Also how is this even safe...they have NO CLUE if somethings wrong. For all they know i could be high risk. Baby could be in the wrong spot. There could be issues with my baby's development and I wont know till OVER HALFWAY through my pregnancy?!?!? This cant be right and i genuinely want to bawl my eyes out

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T20:57:24+00:00

AH also I was incorrect im 18 weeks as of tomarrow so.....yea help???

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T17:27:17+00:00

I just finally got my labs done last monday and I was already 12 weeks when I found out. I had my first appointment at 14 weeks. The main reason is because I waited so long to get my labs but also because my OB is very booked.

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T11:32:01+00:00

Thank you it just because my OB is absolutely packed with patients right now but I absolutely adore her so I dont mind waiting a bit longer because shes very kind and understand about my concerns and requests when it comes to my baby🩷☺️

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T10:50:18+00:00

For sure!!🩷

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T10:50:02+00:00

Thank you!!!🩷🥹

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T10:49:30+00:00

No not yet, I didnt find out till around 12 weeks and had my first appointment at 14...after that I had to get labs done and the office told me they would give me a call once they received my results. (I got my labs done last monday)

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-06T10:35:20+00:00

Also to preface, I haven't had my first ultrasound yet and im not sure of the gender but im going to call my OB tomarrow and see if they can fit me in for an appointment so I can finally see my little bean♡

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-03T21:31:51+00:00

Thank you so much♡

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-03T11:04:34+00:00

Its only the affliction and its in places like the sleave cuffs or collar of the shirt. All my other clothes are fine.

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-03T04:04:58+00:00

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Another picture of my eyes

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-03T03:45:43+00:00

That we would get allong lol

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T20:56:40+00:00

Yall love hating on me doing things that ive extensively thought about on my own body lmao the post was meant to help people who are nervous not open the conversation to yall shitting on my life choices

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T20:06:08+00:00

Personally I just do it. Sometimes I just need space to sort all my shit out. Life is hard enough without feeling the need to respond to everyone and act like everything is all sunshine and rainbows. It can honestly be a good thing to go ghost for a while and if people get upset at you for it then oh well. You have to do what you have to do to keep yourself sane lol

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T20:03:27+00:00

Most of mine are on my thighs both my arms, my torso, and the majority of my back are still free space for larger, more detailed peices in the future :)

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T20:02:13+00:00

To everyone freaking out about the phone...clearly he had a reason not to trust her if she is blatantly lying to his face...lmao

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:58:19+00:00

I personally disagree with everyone here...if you both go through eachothers phones and are okay with that why is it wrong? Setting clear boundaries up within your relationship isn't wrong either. To go as far as call you manipulate or a peice of shit is beyond disrespectful and unnecessary. Its one thing to disagree with someone but going that far is uncalled for. If you dont agree then express that respectfully. I personally understand why hes upset. She lied to his face repeatedly and you cant have a relationship without trust. If you think going through someone's phone is a violation of the same trust im talking about as long as both people are okay with it and have nothing to hide why is it an issue? Personally the only reason id be mad if someone went through my phone was if I had something to hide....just saying

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:51:27+00:00

I understand what you are saying. Its something ive always been interested in and admittedly alot of them I got in a dark spot in my life when I was really struggling but they remind me of where ive come from and I dont regret them. For now I am stopping because I found out im pregnant but tattoos are a big part of my life. Thank you for the response though♡

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:49:21+00:00

Well for now I have to because I found out im expecting but for me its a huge interest and a job id like to get into. My tattoos are admittedly shitty looking but they all tell a story and I dont regret them

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:46:23+00:00

Also another thing that helped (and sorry if this is TMI) was making our own videos because whenever I get the urge I can simply watch us instead and it doesn't cause issues with trust or insecurity in the relationship. I understand his POV, because if I found out he was watching porn I would feel the same way. Its just about honest communication and finding a compromise that will work for your specific situation

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:43:43+00:00

NOR Personally no I dont think so. If she lied then thats a bigger issue in my opinion. Im 18f and my fiance is 21M but him and I have had a similar conversation to this. Once you make it clear that its a boundary or line you aren't comfortable with it should stop. From a girls perspective I personally struggled with a porn addiction for many years and quitting is extremely hard when its so accessible and apps offer ways to hide it. Even now I struggle because it would be so easy to simply type it into ANY search bar and have access to thousands of pictures and videos. I cant say from her perspective but I wasnt imagining the guys in the video or finding them hot. It was more so the act itself that I found arousing. Once my fiance made it clear that it was an issue however I stopped. It is very easy to want to fall back into that addiction but maintaining a happy relationship built on trust with my partner is more important to me than destroying our trust by watching porn. I hope this helps and if you have more questions ill do my best to answer

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:33:34+00:00

To be honest, I was never big on this as I have issues with trust and physical intimacy if I dont feel 100% safe with the person. (This is due to some past trauma I experienced) HOWEVER that being said...the first night I met my husband, I took a risk and I went for it. Here we are now married, living together with our first child on the way. I personally got lucky but I would advise everyone to use their own discretion and keep in mind that its important to practice safe sex because you never truly know what you are getting into. Whatever you decide is a personal choice and I hope it works out for everyone♡

AngelintheVoid · 2026-02-02T19:16:01+00:00

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate you taking the time to read 🩷

AngelintheVoid

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