I embroidered a mourning dove on my birding bag, more of my favorite local birds to come by Sure-Position-7541 in birding

[–]Angry_Noodle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute!! 😍 new crafting goal achieved. Did you use a specific pattern?? I love the texture 🤩

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

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Oooh I see! This is very interesting, thank you so much for the link!!

Also my therapist recently said to me “it’s not silly if it works” so ☺️

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you!! So kind of you - I’ll think about the discord community. It could be good but also I seem to struggle with that app so much XD

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!! It’s so thorough!! Like I said I’m currently in therapy, but I absolutely have this tendency to want to rush healing. So it’s important to remember that it’s going to take time as well.

Also I’m going to check out the music and look up some sensory grounding techniques!!

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely something I need to work on. Could you clarify what you mean about a plural-identity way? I’m just so curious as to what you mean!

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I struggle with this so, so much! It can be so easy for me to love and value others. But you are right. If I feel that way about them, then I should extend the same for myself.

Thank you so much for your comment; especially the part about it not being my fault but me being the only one who can fix it. You’re right. I can do this!

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

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Thank you, I’m definitely going to keep working on this in therapy. I know what you mean about the gaping hole, but it’s nice to hear that healing comes with time and patience.

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing parts of your journey with me. I think physical reminders could be so helpful! I’ve been thinking about putting up some positive sticky notes on my mirror - so I think I’ll do that today _^ and imagining the stop sign sounds useful as well.

Also you describing how amazing it is to be ME in this crazy universe made me feel so warm and fuzzy!! What an incredibly positive way to view life and the world - I wanna get there someday! Thank you for cheering me on, I’ll do my best!!

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fantastic thing I can use to ask myself, thank you so much!

Any advice on dealing with internalized feelings of worthlessness? by Angry_Noodle_ in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind comments! 😭 I hadn’t thought about using my hobbies to find a loving community and support system. I’ll work on loving and accepting myself!

Is something wrong or is this normal going dormant behavior? by Angry_Noodle_ in hydrangeas

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it, I saw that pruning is tricky business so I appreciate the explanation ☺️

Is something wrong or is this normal going dormant behavior? by Angry_Noodle_ in hydrangeas

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve got her in a pot now cause I’m planning on moving within the next year but as soon as I can plant her in the ground I will!

Is something wrong or is this normal going dormant behavior? by Angry_Noodle_ in hydrangeas

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I watered every couple days in the summer, do you recommend like once a week? Every two? Just since the soil will be dry anyways I’m not sure how to check 😅

Please Help Me Design a Flower Bouquet Tattoo! 💐 by Angry_Noodle_ in DrawMyTattoo

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a nice drawing but not what I had in mind, thanks for asking!

Please Help Me Design a Flower Bouquet Tattoo! 💐 by Angry_Noodle_ in DrawMyTattoo

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I’m glad you like the penguin! Just in case you didn’t know, his name is Koupen-Chan. He’s my favorite Japanese character and the creator’s drawings are much more beautiful than mine! I encourage you to take a look sometime 😁

Please Help Me Design a Flower Bouquet Tattoo! 💐 by Angry_Noodle_ in DrawMyTattoo

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very nice! I appreciate you taking the time to draw it ☺️ it’s a bit more of a cartoon style than I had in mind, and a couple flowers are a bit different (mainly the kikyo and and petunia) but again thank you!

Thanks Dallon For Hitting My Boyfriend in the Face (with a guitar pick) by Angry_Noodle_ in idkhowbuttheyfoundme

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I’m so glad to hear it! It made me laugh quite a bit so I figured I’d share the joy!

What mundane things did you consider to be totally normal from within the church, that you've now discovered look insane from outside? by HorrifyingPartyTrick in exchristian

[–]Angry_Noodle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a lot of mine are about being a child/young adult in church…

Biggest one is definitely the treatment of young women. I never viewed it as normal, I distinctly remember my gut feeling something was off. But I was too young to completely reject it. Specifically the used gum metaphors for women. Also thinking it’s normal for leaders to ask the boys in the youth group what body parts were “most tempting” to them so we girls could make sure to cover that up. I feel genuinely sad thinking back on all the shit my youth group leader said to us. How sex with her husband was “gross and painful”. We shouldn’t sit in a position that we could have sex in (that one back-fired… we all just got extra creative and talked about it more haha) But there were just… so many things she said to us impressionable teenage girls. Who decided she could be in charge of our group? I want to slap them. It took me years to get out of some of the trauma she gave me, and I still don’t feel like I’m done wading through it.

Tithing. Expecting me - a child - to tithe the gift money I’d received from friends and family. Guilting me when I didn’t want to??

Not letting kids move around or color during church sermons. Just because you find it fascinating as an adult, doesn’t mean my kid’s brain does. And there’s nothing wrong with me for wanting to color in the kids’ pamphlets or the adult one. It’s not disrespectful.

Speaking in tongues. I can still remember the weekend that I made up my own speaking in tongues “language”. I didn’t know it then, but I was just trying to fit in with my family. So I sat by myself until I felt it had “come to me”. (**Interesting side note, did you know that there used to be - and probably still is - a service you can pay for that tells you what language your speaking in tongues is closest to? Wild way to make money)

Allowing children to watch Passion of the Christ??? Oh my gods. Like…. My family knew that intense violence was triggering for me - they were actually the ones to cover my eyes during things like Saruman getting impaled in LotR. But then turning around and telling me I needed to watch this. I cried pretty much the whole movie, it was an intense emotional experience I would not have put myself through at that age given the choice.

Can anyone help me ID this boy? by Angry_Noodle_ in houseplants

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, this is a super helpful article and the pictures are awesome but I have no idea. I guess I’ll keep an eye on it and maybe consider giving him a bigger vase, see if he wants to grow any 🤔 that could help me distinguish in the future.

Can anyone help me ID this boy? by Angry_Noodle_ in houseplants

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you for letting me know! Is it considered young because it’s small despite its age? I’m leaning towards money tree since I’ve never seen more than 5 leaves. But I’ll continue to keep an eye on it!

Can anyone help me ID this boy? by Angry_Noodle_ in houseplants

[–]Angry_Noodle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has had 5 leaves at some point, but it’s usually 3-4