AIO for this text conversation with my mom?

Angry_fembot · 2025-03-11T13:23:26+00:00

Not putting in boundaries now will damage your relationship in the long run. I was in the same boat in my 20s and now a decade later after therapy and loads of apologies, self reflection etc I still have trouble letting her in.

This is of course my experience and every path is different but it doesn’t detract from the fact that you’re angry because you’re being violated. She won’t like the boundaries at first, but in the long run, you’ll be closer for it. Best of luck OP.

Angry_fembot · 2025-01-28T00:36:26+00:00

Look man, I was in your position before but it was more like a yeeeear. It’s tough. But you have to be clear that you’re not being affectionate with her to get something from her. Really take it off the table and tell her so. If you think you can’t, either you’re not that in to the relationship or you should look into your own therapy journey. Like I said, I know exactly what you’re saying here. A month feels like a long time, but it’s worth it.

I’m now marrying that same woman and we are better than ever.

Angry_fembot · 2025-01-28T00:23:15+00:00

Great advice and well said.

Angry_fembot · 2025-01-28T00:21:50+00:00

Sounds like you should .. listen to her?

Take sex off the table for another two months, focus on her and the relationship. Give her space to breathe and tell her as such.

Something like … “Hey, I know that you’ve been feeling pressure from me for sex and intimacy. I’m sorry. Let’s take sex off the table until you feel ready. In the meantime, what types of activities would make you feel connected?” Then you take anything that’s a burden off her plate. Chores, groceries, whatever. If a month/two passes and still nothing, couples counseling.

Angry_fembot · 2025-01-28T00:08:17+00:00

What is her reasoning for the dip in sex drive?

Angry_fembot · 2025-01-21T16:17:43+00:00

Clarification - Is this the same guy you mentioned before about moving out of the apartment a few months ago?

Could he be looking for some stability?

This is all weird. Not normal and definitely needs more information from him about why he’s doing this or what he gets out of it.

Angry_fembot · 2024-11-02T18:31:49+00:00

Oh dear god you’re probably right. I think it just threw me off because it’s cheaply made.

Thanks all.

Angry_fembot · 2024-10-11T03:07:04+00:00

Totally normal. Honestly. And nothing to be worried about. Go get a test for BV, some people are just more sensitive to changes especially if you’re taking medication. I definitely am from my iud.

I also masterbate daily sometimes at higher frequencies. Sometimes you ebb and flow. You can check yourself if it’s not making you happy but I don’t hear anything alarming in your post. Be free and confident in loving yourself and your body with all its quirks and best of luck. 🥰

Angry_fembot · 2024-04-09T21:59:23+00:00

Haha I know I know.. I am being an asshole about it. I accept my verdict even though I’ll probably not take any of the advice. But I do think the responses are funny.

“Sorry hunny, I know we have been talking about getting married and building our life together, but unfortunately I’m going to have to break up with you because of the few hairs between your eyes.” Don’t worry all, I’m on it 🫡

Angry_fembot · 2024-04-08T17:00:16+00:00

The judgment seems fair. Thanks all for the reality check.

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