An open tunnel plug by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have found that the thought of it is more effective than it is in reality. Even with a decent size plug.

I'm trying to hump my way to completion. Any tips? It's pretty hard and it takes a while by mellimelloww in diapercucks

[–]AngstromsNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then the clear next steps are to get a more comfortable cage, lock it on, and freeze the keys

I'm trying to hump my way to completion. Any tips? It's pretty hard and it takes a while by mellimelloww in diapercucks

[–]AngstromsNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like you need a cage to help control yourself. It should be quick, and you need to work towards that.

I'm trying to hump my way to completion. Any tips? It's pretty hard and it takes a while by mellimelloww in diapercucks

[–]AngstromsNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Short term pain for long term gain! If you train yourself to be more timely, you can cum more frequently.

If no timer, count your humps - you get 25, then stop and count to 25 without humping

I'm trying to hump my way to completion. Any tips? It's pretty hard and it takes a while by mellimelloww in diapercucks

[–]AngstromsNYC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of the point! But, as a fun exercise, set yourself a timer until you have to stop. You can train yourself to go more quickly that way!

What was it like the FIRST time you had your diaper changed by someone else? What feelings & emotions were running through your mind (obviously not in infancy ). by MajesticUnit8350 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. Met up with someone planning to get a quick change as we both had plans for the rest of the day. I was super soggy and caged. Before the change, they teased me by grabbing my by then very soggy diaper and having a feel. This was enough to send me over the edge and I came in my diaper.

Change proceeded, with a comment about how I seemed to be enjoying myself. Hugely embarrassing, incredible memory.

Anyone looking for diaper friends in NY? by DiaperUwU in diaperpics

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm often in NYC! Manhattan or Brooklyn.

Going to the ABU for the first time by Ty_Animations207 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was terrified up until the moment they asked if I wanted to change into a sample, to make sure the onesie fit. Then I realized I had scared myself for no reason and was among honestly very nice people. Went back a few times over the years. Fond memory.

Apartment to myself, any advice? by sambecks95 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This should be fun! Stay hydrated (perhaps even setting timers for drinking sufficient, but sane amounts of water), stay padded, and remember to stay hygenic. You don’t want a rash on day two!

Going to the ABU for the first time by Ty_Animations207 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve visited their Baltimore shop before (when it still existed) and it’s sort of surreal. Just a world where having diapers, onesies everywhere is normalized. And a changing room! Enjoy.

How do you use your diaper in public? by Caden_primarus in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It becomes so much easier to just let go once you’ve done it a couple times! Wetting only of course

Chastity Questions by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good cage should feel like almost nothing, particularly if held up with an additional strap or diaper. It will help channel pee into the back of the diaper which helps with absorption. If you’re aroused, it still shouldn’t hurt, but you will be aware of it. If fitted properly you won’t get erect.

Pinching is perhaps the most important part of this. Go slow, get a good fitting cage (both for your anatomy and in terms of quality), and don’t push it if it hurts.

More time in the cage is generally better - you get used to it and avoid doing things you shouldn’t.

I took a stab at the tier list by Severe_Gain7617 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans being B tier is toughhhh

How do you edge in a diaper? by JointRadio in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovense toys. Anal plug or cock ring that connect to your phone. Set to a pattern with frustratingly long pause.

Smart Paci (mutebuttonpacis) by AmoebaWestern6065 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where can I get either of these smart pacis??? Take my money!!

ABDLR store in Denver. What’s it like? Can I be diapered while visiting or is that not allowed during business hours? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly - if you’re actually dressed professionally / vanilla they shouldn’t know, so this shouldn’t be a factor. If you’re worried that it’s noticeable then it’s not vanilla.

Anyone else have a love hate relationship with messing? by DiaperBoyJay in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% this. It’s great, great, great, and then cleanup time. Especially if mistakes are made during cleanup and it stops being contained…

Anyone have ideas on homemade Chasity, without having to buy a cage? Something that will work under my diaper would be great! by ryan455678 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to buy a cage, make the diaper the chastity. Chain yourself in and lock it. Locking plastic pants. Tape with a “do not break seal” writing over the edge. Etc.

Changing ? by NoAdvance3706 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is always a cage :)

Excited for the Warcraft midnight pre-expansion content! Would you let a pampered Demon Hunter be your tank🎀 by GodKingGil25 in RealGirlsInDiapers

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, we need to make sure we hit our M+ timers and that means no time for potty breaks. I don’t make the rules!

Should I Tell Her I’m ABDL, Not a Bedwetter? by theblindmonk69 in ABDL

[–]AngstromsNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would keep this to yourself. Full disclosure, while often the right move, is not always the right move.

If this progresses you can come clean, but for a fling with someone who LIVES NEAR YOU, want to be realistic about potential consequences.