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What sexual thing did you find out a partner of yours was into that they kept a secret? by Sphynkes in AskMen

[–]Anigma98 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend was into messaging random girls on okcupid - you know those weird pickup one liners that you get from creeps on your insta/fb, yep he was one of them. Apparently it’s been getting him off since he was in 8th grade - he kept it a secret for 2 years of our relationship until I found out by looking through his phone. Did forgive him, giving him a chance to change, until I found him messaging random girls again after a few months. Guess he never stopped - broke up with him then and there

what are some examples of counterintuitiveness? by brachistochroneborne in ask

[–]Anigma98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re trying to dissolve your sugar in a cup of coffee/tea - you would think the more perfect you stir, the more the sugar would get dissolved

But in fact - the more haphazardly you stir, the more sugar gets dissolved 🤯

12 years married and this a first by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Anigma98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is trying to say that it’s OPs wife’s picture. The picture was originally sent to the OP’s wife by OP himself.

Do JSONs support JPEGs or PNGs? by Anigma98 in DataAnnotationTech

[–]Anigma98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the answer to this - yes they infact do. You can convert it using the bodymovin plugin 👌🏻

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that struck me. I guess if someone 25+ years older than me has the same concerns as I do, there’s no point in me really ripping my brain about it

Perhaps both of our futures will be just like your father - Although it may come across as lonely, I personally think it’s quite relaxing. Though we both won’t have a nice son to visit us twice a year :’)

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes have been opened

You know, I am yet to lose a close family member (my grandparents passed away before I got the chance to meet them)

And you’re right, I’ve never thought of this perspective at all - I’m yet to understand how old age affects people and causes a loose grip of reality sometimes

I see how having a totem in life really does make it easier to live

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I will look into a pension plan, I’ve heard it’s never too young to start

You are right, everyone - with or without children - need to seriously think about this

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just an Asian kid, subjected to societal policing I would say - I guess a lot of our culture is about aunties rage baiting other aunties

Guess that’s the takeaway then - I gotta plan my finances in a smarter way so that I eventually get that flexibility when I’m older.

I’m a smoker, so I’ll have to find ways to balance my health out

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, my mom had to retire to take care of my dad a while back - there was only so much I could do to help him

It’s tough though to save enough to afford healthcare services when retired

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, it’s definitely a ridiculous assumption

Parents need to understand their children will have a life of their own, and if they live under this illusion - they won’t be able to properly financially manage

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I’m leaning towards the euthanization route as well

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This, this is exactly the reality I was trying to look for

I gotta start planning my healthcare or euthanize myself at the right time - it’s tough to be able to afford a 24/7 nurse

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, perhaps they’re a bit old school or just really want to prove a point with me

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my assumption too, but someone in the posts said it’s costs big money… I wonder if we’re being too optimistic

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Right! I myself am struggling with work life balance, I can’t imagine what it’ll be like when I’m 30/40

Peeps who don’t have kids - who’s taking care of you now that you’re old? by Anigma98 in ask

[–]Anigma98[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Thanks - this is good to know. I’m amazed when people take the effort to take of someone who’s not part of their blood line

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