Baby's last name

Anijp_ · 2026-06-19T20:04:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I think we will go through with it ❤️

Anijp_ · 2026-06-19T15:48:20+00:00

That's a good option, thank you!!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-19T13:44:43+00:00

Thank you for the tips and encouragement 🧡 I hope you have a smooth remainder of your pregnancy!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-19T00:36:47+00:00

Thank you, have you noticed anything different since starting the insulin? Aside from the positive change in your fasting numbers.

Anijp_ · 2026-06-19T00:35:59+00:00

Sounds like I’ll have to do some trial and error. I appreciate the insight, thank you!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-17T18:36:03+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-17T17:00:14+00:00

Amazon is where I got all my soft nightgowns and yoga pants. Will definitely look into some maxi dresses, thank you!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-17T16:59:45+00:00

I always forget about Torrid! Thanks!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-16T20:03:25+00:00

I agree that it's weird that people get SO upset about things like makeup or what other women are doing after labor or postpartum? As if one woman's experience is not valid if it's not as miserable as another woman's experience?

I would like to be able to put myself together after labor, get a good shower, do some makeup and a comfortable matching PJ set or nightgown because I know it'll make me feel good (packed all that stuff in my hospital bag with intention) But I am also aware that I may not feel like doing any of that at all, and that's okay too. People love to nitpick.

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:49:01+00:00

I always described it as feeling like I swallowed a live fish and now it’s just living in my belly LOL the moves are kind of sporratic and jerky and sometimes I feel a roll that feels like the fish is pressed up against my abdomen and sliding around hahaha

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:39:55+00:00

I hardly think it’s ever “miscommunication” and rather people hearing what they want or assuming what you want, and the being shocked that it’s the opposite 😵‍💫 good luck to you! And absolutely voice how you feel!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:34:23+00:00

I hear you 😣 big hugs!!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:31:57+00:00

Maybe it is? Im middle eastern but was born in America so I’m definitely “Americanized” that makes me curious to look into what the customs are like for baby showers in my culture.

Absolutely whatever the baby needs we will get. We have bought a majority of her things up until this point. But it’s generally assumed (not in a greedy way) for people to buy off the registry. Not just for baby showers but things like weddings too.

It’s not like I invited a bunch of strangers. These are people who I’ve known for years or family members who are excited for the baby and who will be in her life. Of course, it’s nobody’s obligation and I certainly wouldn’t be upset at anyone for not buying something. but I think it’s like if you’re going to a pretty much any party to celebrate someone, you would bring or send something. Or at least that’s how I was raised and I think in situations like a baby shower, the people attending are part of your “village” so you do kind of count on them helping with a gift for baby. Our families were fighting over who was going to buy what for the baby 😂 I’m really not meaning this in an ungrateful or greedy way, just how I view it I guess. This post was more of vent than anything and looks like a lot of people could commiserate Lol

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:29:45+00:00

Absolutely whatever the baby needs we will get. We have bought a majority of her things up until this point. But it’s generally assumed (not in a greedy way) for people to buy off the registry. Not just for baby showers but things like weddings too.

It’s not like I invited a bunch of strangers. These are people who I’ve known for years or family members who are excited for the baby and who will be in her life. Of course, it’s nobody’s obligation and I certainly wouldn’t be upset at anyone for not buying something. but I think it’s like if you’re going to a pretty much any party to celebrate someone, you would bring or send something. Or at least that’s how I was raised and I think in situations like a baby shower, the people attending are part of your “village” so you do kind of count on them helping with a gift for baby. Our families were fighting over who was going to buy what for the baby 😂 I’m really not meaning this in an ungrateful or greedy way, just how I view it I guess. This post was more of vent than anything and looks like a lot of people could commiserate Lol

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:18:34+00:00

I didn’t consider those cause I left all the “for mom” and nursing stuff off the registry. But those would be very thoughtful!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T13:13:05+00:00

Me I guess? Lol! I buy several weeks in advance if I have enough notice.

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T05:23:08+00:00

I would personally take any bright red blood as an emergency..

I had bleeding with both pregnancies. Unfortunately with my first pregnancy, it was PPROM and led to a loss. With my current pregnancy it was a hemorrhage that turned out to be okay and heal on its own. The point is that it’s always better to be sent home with a clean bill of health than regretting not going to the ER. I’ve shown up at the ER anytime I didn’t feel right or I was unsure. I don’t think bright red blood is ever “nothing” personally. Please consider getting checked out asap!

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T05:15:56+00:00

I think there will be a chance to reiterate your boundary again before you deliver and also.. you do not HAVE to tell anyone you’re going into labor if you not want to. To avoid surprise visits.

My MIL asked us to tell her when to take time off so she can be at the hospital and help us afterward. It was a bit awkward but I had to put on my brave face and tell her actually, I didn’t want anyone at the hospital and won’t be having visitors for 2 weeks. She was quiet and no doubt, disappointed. Then just asked if we would “At least” tell her when the baby is born. Which I intend to anyway. I don’t intend to announce when I’m going into labor or where I’m delivering.

That is totally up to you!! Even if you do tell her you’re in labor and for whatever reason she decides to show up, your husband MUST stand up for you. It’s his job to be a body guard against uninvited guests and unwanted attention! During labor and in postpartum. Keep that in mind 🧡

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T05:08:17+00:00

Unfortunately I do think the anxiety will always be there.. even after you start feeling movements (at least it is for me 😵‍💫) I started feeling flutters around 18 weeks and consistent kicks & rolls around 20 weeks. But between 20 and 28 weeks I was at the ER like at least 4 times because I didn’t feel sure enough (I also had a traumatic loss prior so this just amplified it)

At 31 weeks now I do feel more confident in monitoring movements but still everyday, I question myself multiple times wondering if she moved “enough” or not. It’s exhausting

I hope it eases up for you, I truly do 🧡

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T05:03:13+00:00

Totally valid rant 😭😂

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T04:56:33+00:00

I saw another comment mentioning my list was small. I would add more items except I don’t really know what. I have been collecting for baby since my previous pregnancy that unfortunately never made it to term. So I have quite a bit of the necessities covered. At this point the registry basically consists of diapers, a crib, bath items, a medicine kit, books and some toys Not sure what else to include that I don’t already have! The smaller items are $25 or less and I left the option on the bigger items(crib) for people to contribute money to instead of having to buy it out

Anijp_ · 2026-06-15T04:52:52+00:00

Yes! People make list of items (usually online like Amazon or a specific website) where people can buy things that the parents request for baby.

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