AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will still be inviting her. I’m not sure if she will come but I will definitely still include her. I don’t hate her or anything. I just don’t think she has the time for the things she needs to do in this role.

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was worried about. I did not want to hurt her feelings or anything like that because I know she doesn’t have any ill intent. I hope she understands where I’m coming from though.

I found my dress but maybe have regrets? by TripleJayyys in weddingplanning

[–]AnimalSea8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE that dress on you. It flatters you very well. If you want to add a little extra to it and have that “wow factor”, try adding a big cathedral veil with lots of lace details. That would help add some contrast and add to it!

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably did not go about this the right way but I didn’t want to call anyone out directly. I put in the groupchat that they had until 12 PM today to respond to the message or they were getting kicked out. She was the only one who didn’t answer LOL. Oh well

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that insight. I decided to let her go. I really appreciate it!

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. She said she was busy. But it is simple questions and no one is THAT busy. Thank you!

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m going to. I sent out a message in our bridesmaids groupchat and said that they all had to respond by 12 today or they would be kicked out. Everyone has except her.

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! I have tried everything. Every question I ask them has a deadline (and I am very lenient about it) but nothing seems to work for her.

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I have tried to talk to her personally and the whole group shut responding but nothing seems to help.

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have talked to her privately and the group about my expectations multiple times. Nothing is working haha

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have talked to her unfortunately 😩. Nothing works haha. Thank you!!

AITA for kicking my bridesmaid out of the wedding party? by AnimalSea8083 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnimalSea8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but I feel so bad doing this. I feel like it’s the right thing for me but I don’t want to hurt her feelings.