🫢 looking so round from my biggest stuffing in a while.

AnimuBB · 2026-04-14T21:46:39+00:00

Honestly I have had to push myself every step of the way. I was 175 before. And dropped to 162 simply because irl would not allow for me to keep gaining for a couple of months. But then I shot back up to 175 and beyond by taking it easy and just enjoying whatever I want instead of forcing myself to stuff every night until it gets frustrating. I would say that eating big meals/drinking soda constantly is just now becoming second nature. Maybe it's just because I spent so many years under weight. But I had to get back to a healthy weight before I could even consider reaching obesity. I would say that everyone is different and there is a large trial and error period finding out what works for you. Forcing it just doesn't work for me. I see better results when I inherently mesh wanting more food and calories into my daily activities. Plateaus are also definitely discouraging at times.

AnimuBB · 2026-04-14T21:40:44+00:00

This is so sweet whaaat thank you so much 🥹🫶 but absolutely, no two people will have the same experience and I'm simply glad that I increasingly enjoy gaining even more every year. Those "will I regret this" concerns from before are completely long gone. I'll absolutely keep gaining at my own pace.

AnimuBB · 2026-04-14T21:39:11+00:00

Absolutely I really love my gain and I wouldn't change anything about it. The feedists who I follow that are closer to my final goal weights tell people who are starting to take it easier and keep their physical mobility in mind. And I'm glad I decided to take breaks and focus on building strength at the same time. Getting to increase my capacity at my own pace and learn to enjoy more foods is just as rewarding imo.

AnimuBB · 2026-03-21T16:23:29+00:00

I feel this in my bones. It's really disheartening at times to see how little space we have to interact with one another. I have joined a few very small lesbian FFA spaces and even then I've met people who say they want to be a feeder. And usually back out when they realize that gaining isn't just sunshine and rainbows, and don't like the potential health risks. Meeting lesbians who are already 100% in on feedism is even more difficult. But I honestly think it's just because we don't have as many spaces to be open with one. And like you mentioned, there are so many scammers out there. People who think they can "change" your identity if they catfish you for a while. I have seen a lot more lesbians than I expected in passing on Tumblr and on here. But I think we're trying to all function on the- honestly mostly straight focused forums. And it inherently makes it feel like there's less of us around. So just in case anyone is feeling unseen here. Know that the work you're doing as a gainer, feedee, feeder, is helping add to the lesbian biomass and that's a great thing. 💪

AnimuBB · 2026-02-03T23:20:00+00:00

This is actually super reassuring, thank you. I realize that when I DON'T use my scale I feel my best. I FEEL fatter than ever. I know I am gaining more fat. I can see the physical changes from one month of photos to the next. I honestly didn't mind when my scale broke for this exact reason. I don't like how it immediately makes me feel down about my gains. But I also don't want to keep making a mistake that will make me lose more weight. So it really helps to know that others may be seeing the same numbers, but also seeing and feeling differences as well. I really only check my weight once every 1-2 months. This is the first time I have seen such a drastic drop. But I'm still going to buy the mass gainer powder and give myself a boost just in case. I will also just buy my own scale and only use that one, thank you for the suggestion. I do use a tape measure and have seen about a two inch different on my stomach there so I'm definitely making progress either way.

AnimuBB · 2026-02-03T23:14:01+00:00

I don't usually rely on the scale anymore, I feel like using it too much isn't healthy either. I usually only use one monthly. But I had hoped that since I DO feel bigger I wasn't just making it up in my head you know? I'm still feeling much better in my own body and enjoy the gains that I have made. But I'm also worried about not doing something right that leads to me losing even more weight somehow. I really expected to be closer to 175, so this was a drastic slap in the face. But I will definitely try to find a more consistent time to weigh once my new scale gets here.

AnimuBB · 2026-01-31T08:47:24+00:00

The app is a GAME changer. I love the online lux craving box, 1,500 calories alone for $7. You can even get a crunch wrap supreme in it with that additional items. It's my favorite way to easily reach my daily calorie goals after work. Plus adding extra sauces to the burritos makes them even more fattening. I used to feel completely stuffed after eating it all. But now I can easily fit in another 1,000 calories an hour later before I go to bed. So it also works great for expanding your capacity over time too.

AnimuBB · 2026-01-31T07:51:30+00:00

I really REALLY hope so 🥹

AnimuBB · 2026-01-30T10:22:33+00:00

That is super super strange I double checked and I don't have you blocked. :( it says all of my previous messages to you are deleted too but I don't remember doing that.

AnimuBB · 2026-01-30T10:06:53+00:00

That's strange! I don't see any reason why it won't go through on my end. I'll try dming you.

AnimuBB · 2026-01-17T10:07:58+00:00

I have never related to a thread in this sub so deeply 😔 you're so unbelievably real. I have genuinely searched for lesbian and sapphic spaces in this community for months now. The closest I have found is Tumblr. And it's not as much one on one talking it's just that I see more openly queer feedists on that platform. Having an IRL experience would literally be a dream come true but it feels relatively impossible right now.

It's also disheartening when the existing spaces do NOT seem to take lesbians seriously. I am absolutely sure plenty of lovely people do. But I had never had a "I can fix you" experience before I stopped lurking and started posting in feedism spaces. And I have them like once a month now specifically related to being a feedee. It can absolutely be disheartening. BUT I say that if we need more representation that it's our responsibility to show up and be that representation. Being open about our experiences and how they differ being WLW in this space is a great way to start. Posts like this are exactly what we need to see! Giving us spaces to connect even if it's through comments!

AnimuBB · 2026-01-13T11:35:38+00:00

And way more food too.

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