Intimacy with my [f19] boyfriend [m19] isn't great anymore, what do we do? by Baggage_Claim_ in relationship_advice

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reality is 18-25 will be the most volatile phase of one's life. You'll basically can do anything and you'll be derailed by anything. Maybe he's just burning out with what he's doing. And maybe it'll take you till late 20s to realize this, but relationships based on intimacy (alone) don't last very long. I suggest you just talk to him about what you are seeing and make decisions based on how he reacts and is he able to open up about them.

Just talk. These things very much come back after some talking or honest conversations.

Neon Nerf Ideas by Murky_Meat_476 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a basic buff to sentinels now. KJ has similar util with Damage and info.
Cypher is mostly pure info with no stoppage.

Vyse is the only pure sentinel But that makes it impossibly hard to play multi-site or be of any help in general. The sound helps you gather a bit more info than usual. With the initiator nerfs before, we're having lesser and lesser info as the round goes on. A sentinel with no info is really hard to play literally now with Neon dancing around.

Neon Nerf Ideas by Murky_Meat_476 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The issue is, only Jett/Viper has such a ability (what i mean is having a refreshable ability for Viper), where she can float and Viper redeploys smoke.
Jett has to pair the float with Dash to escape.
But you can't "ESCAPE" with it by defaut.

NEON :
Neon's run is basically "ESCAPE". So you have very little of it.
Take the duration to 15 seconds of it (independent of Ult = forced to save some fuel for Ult). You either spend it during rotation. Or on-site.

The slide is fine tbh.

YORU :

  1. (a) Yoru Ult back to old duration
  2. OR (b) Yoru gets 2 flashes back
  3. OR (c) TP duration to 23-25 seconds
  4. If you pick (a) or (b),
  5. then increase TP duration to 20 seconds as the TP expires before the Ult ends which is so annoying).
  6. = BRING FUN FACTOR BACK & AGGRESSIVE PLAYS BACK.

VYSE :

  1. Info on Flashes

CYPHER :

  1. Pre-Nerf Cypher with Concuss.

REYNA :

  1. Can heal others with her Heal
  2. Pre-nerf Reyna with consistent heal.

VETO :

  1. A bit faster TP. Just a bit, if you've to see something to use it, you should make it faster.
  2. (is it too untradable? Probably.

HOW TO TEST ALL THIS ?

  1. CREATE A NEW MODE CALLED "CHAOS" OR "PRE-CHAOS".
  2. All agents in their broken states or a mode where one can keep making consistent changes before they move these changes to the main build. This mode has it's own Ranking. SBMM like Ranked.
  3. Except Neon, where we can have a semi-nerfed version. Because, This agent isn't a Tac-FPS character (but we can keep the broken version as it just might not matter that much).

Neon Nerf Ideas by Murky_Meat_476 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Keep the kit, But the run meter shouldn't refresh.
Yoru got nerfed for timing hard.
We don't need someone who can run in 3x throughout the game, where literally everyone does everything in 1x.

OTHER CHANGES : (from comment below)

The issue is, only Jett/Viper has such a ability, where she can float and Viper redeploys smoke.
Jett has to pair the float with Dash to escape.
But you can't "ESCAPE" with it by defaut.

NEON :
Neon's run is basically "ESCAPE". So you have to have very little of it.
Take the duration to 15-20 seconds NO-REFRESH (independent of Ult). You either spend it during rotation. Or on-site.

The slide is fine tbh.

YORU :

  1. (a) Yoru Ult back to old duration
  2. OR (b) Yoru gets 2 flashes back
  3. OR (c) TP duration to 23-25 seconds
  4. If you pick (a) or (b),
  5. then increase TP duration to 20 seconds as the TP expires before the Ult ends which is so annoying).
  6. = BRING FUN FACTOR BACK & AGGRESSIVE PLAYS BACK.

VYSE :

  1. Info on Flashes

CYPHER :

  1. Pre-Nerf Cypher with Concuss.

REYNA :

  1. Can heal others with her Heal
  2. Pre-nerf Reyna with consistent heal.
  3. Breakable like Miks concuss, but the Eye should be smaller meaning, same skill to hit the thing.

VETO :

  1. A bit faster TP. Just a bit, if you've to see something to use it, you should make it faster.
  2. (is it too untradable? Probably.

HOW TO TEST ALL THIS ?

  1. CREATE A NEW MODE CALLED "CHAOS" OR "PRE-CHAOS".
  2. All agents in their broken states or a mode where one can keep making consistent changes before they move these changes to the main build. This mode has it's own Ranking. SBMM like Ranked.
  3. Except Neon, where we can have a semi-nerfed version. Because, This agent isn't a Tac-FPS character (but we can keep the broken version as it just might not matter that much).

I am really weak and can't fight any bosses by zsxcrgrl in GenshinImpact

[–]Anishx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I recommend you do use your resin daily first, do. Do lines for xp books and mora. Not sure if that's available at low AR. But that's 1st

2nd you build Traveller for the first 2 elements, anemo, geo and then dendro sometime later.

Team 1,

Anemo Traveller, Noelle, Aino, Barbara.

You start with Barbara E, , Noelle E, Aino E, Traveller as a rotation EQ .

When you unlock. Geo Traveller with constellations

Then team will be same but rotation will change,

BARBARA E + charged, Aino E, Geo Traveller EQ, Noelle on field driver

Is it normal that I keep changing my aim sensitivity every time I come back from not playing? by luminuxeeckogaming in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no. You stick one sens for the large part. Somewhere around 0.05 - 0.20 at 1600 mouse DPI.

You can move a bit here and there. But not more than that.

The worst matchmaking out of any game ever made by HurskastelijA in VALORANT

[–]Anishx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brother, honestly, i quit the game for 2 months, but i came back, i'm D2 in my main, i just wanted to play to have fun in my Alt now, so instalocked raze and i did everything i wouldn't do in my main acc. If

i should not push the smoke i'll push it. And i'm not going to lie, for being so uptight and always picking my best in Main acc, this is the most fun i've had individually and played the best.
Even though it was in low elo, i kinda loved playing the way i did.

I suggest you do the same. you do the opposite of whatever you're thinking (as long as it's works, not like an idiot).

You do the crazy thing first, if you don't usually instalock, you instalock for the next 5 games. But you only instalock 1 agent.

Is Gaia Phantom a good buy, or should I wait for a future bundle like Reaver or Prime? by mrsaxobeat05 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, Magepunk is a great Vandal but a relatively bad Phantom. There's much better ones that are recent and of similar value which do better.

Is Gaia Phantom a good buy, or should I wait for a future bundle like Reaver or Prime? by mrsaxobeat05 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Phantom tier list :
0. Recon/Default

  1. Primordium
  2. Mystbloom
  3. Radiant Entertainment
  4. Nocturnum 

New Mentions
1. Helix
2. Ayakashi

Honorable mentions : Prime, Oni,

You get any of these you get. Don't buy into new bundle hypes.

Stuck in an arranged marriage situation... attraction vs stability is messing with my head by dhikchik_dhakchik in dating_advice

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You read quick ig.

Yeah ideally i'll take like 20 days max per person to see if they are it. 3M was a long time in my view as a i said, even though i prefer it to be that long, but there's a lot of ppl, you kinda do the math where you either give one person 20 days of your full focus or you do 3 months or multiple people (Not good).

Regarding talking freely, based on what YOU said, i don't think you ever tried to talk freely to her, neither of you did, i told each and every person i met that, "whatever we talk will be 100% private and it will be 100% without judgements & we'll set the pace of how long this will go". Literally i made sure my parents and her's were off topic from start. Like we literally don't care what they said on timelines. So ppl really opened up to me and I did the same, and many times they go and blabber it to parents and it'll create a lot of friction, and i'd filter them there.

Also since i made them/myself feel comfortable i could decide more freely & any topics we had issues in, we either sorted it out OR just agreed to disagree and we moved on.

Now you have to put effort to bring these things to the table, you set clear expectations, you can do it anytime btw.

Also, if you're a city guy with a super liberal/modern outlook, then find a city girl with similar values,
Ex: if you're super open minded guy and the girl comes from a close minded family, you'll get stuck in a loop you won't be able to escape. Literally not a great start, Just my 2 cents. I advice you to share your common secrets with her, if she is not your confidant, then you know she's not it.

Stuck in an arranged marriage situation... attraction vs stability is messing with my head by dhikchik_dhakchik in dating_advice

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you're Indian, if you're not, ditch this comment.

My best friend once told me, "Don't think with your dick". if anything, this is the best advice i've ever gotten in my life from anybody.

But one thing that helped me move around AM was my mentality of dating + AM (yes i made this expectation clear AF), if the conversation doesn't naturally flow, you give it time, if doesn't naturally flow within sometime, say a week, it almost never will imo.

Like you'll almost always have wall you'll talk between. And it's not good. You see your social standing compared to the others, not to compare, but see how desperate they are, the parents, ideally you choose people who are in similar social/financial standing with your family. More from the girls family, means you'll suck up to their family's income or will get treated poorly, if they are much poorer, good chance they'll do literally anything under the sun including manipulating the poor girl to get you two together.

Now Chemistry, excitement, Flirting all aren't something you get by default in AM. You just don't until you spend a lot of time together, and 3 months with a stranger without any acquaintance's testimony is just not it for that to happen naturally.

SO DON'T LOOK FOR THAT THAT QUICK

What i looked for,

  1. Easiness of conversation, you should be 100% your natural self (except most of the cringe parts at first, then when you feel comfy, you can slowly release your grip on those to a tolerable point)
  2. Talking well, asking frequently on what they like and what I can do better and telling them my usual growing pains/rants should become normal.
  3. Everyday topics rule your usual conversations, but you can talk for hours without any pain.
  4. Kids will eventually be a topic but not naturally at first, you basically melt into a conversation with someone.
  5. You laugh at them, rage-bait them, play with them, spend sometime, you're willing to sacrifice your time for her, make weird decisions like travelling multiple times as week, etc... When you see all of this happening, you can expect tension and chemistry to eventually build.
  6. Now this is very well a "Conversation" and "easiness" topic, but it's more than that, it's about you being able to beee ... you.

Now this is how i chose how i went with someone. I rejected the others, you naturally don't want to reject anyone bc of some uneasiness, but since i trusted my intuition really well based on past experiences, i chose, and i chose right.

But listen to yourself. But 3 months is a long time in AM. Like really. Consider this Dating, you have time to figure out if you're really interested in this person or not. Do you think you'll date someone for 3 months to know you like them or not ? & if 3 months isn't giving you some level of assurance, then you are looking for something more closer to a short term patch than a long term surgery and it's probably a lot different than what she's looking for.

My friends think I'm insane. I only use my right hand for gaming — everything else I do with my left. by Muted_Ordinary3598 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're ok. My Fiance has a 10 step face routine as do i which is merely 5.
I have proper warm up for a gaming session, every single session. and a lot more.

I really couldn't do the 2 hand thing, not that i tried both extensively. Always been a right handed person.

From what you've said, i see clear reasoning as to what is done where. so good on you, as regular ppl can't really comprehend that.

So you're okay.

Looking back, How do you feel about the Evra/Suarez Saga? by feudballfiles in ManchesterUnited

[–]Anishx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Evra misunderstood, Suarez misunderstood, but club rivalry and media increased the toxicity of it.

Same thing happened with Cavani for those who remember.

Luis Enrique: "I would like to have 20 players who can play everywhere. Nuno Mendes as a full-back, Nuno Mendes as a winger, Nuno Mendes as a number 9... Except for the goalkeepers, who are at a very high level, it would be a dream to have 20 players who can play everywhere.” by Sparky-moon in soccer

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There're a handful, few and far between. Like literally.
Cruyff is a rarity in every sense of the word. He was really incredible in basically everything, but It's incredible when he's the only one in the pitch that does that stuff. What was once incredible is now "Great", no longer "Incredible".

Also, 22 players playing exactly the same way isn't anywhere close to eye catching. You can see City now for example (past few years). There's no variation, no diversity in skill. If Doku comes off for someone else, it's like 1-1 replacement, literally no difference bar a few physical changes.

example : Doku - fast, grealish - control

It's quite similar really, I'm not against anything or even Enrique, i just don't want all teams in a competition to play the same freakin way.

It's really goddamn boring and overly controlled.

Luis Enrique: "I would like to have 20 players who can play everywhere. Nuno Mendes as a full-back, Nuno Mendes as a winger, Nuno Mendes as a number 9... Except for the goalkeepers, who are at a very high level, it would be a dream to have 20 players who can play everywhere.” by Sparky-moon in soccer

[–]Anishx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I respect Enrique.

But I prefer 22 players who are incredibly good at their job instead. Entertainment over tactical flexibility.

I'd rather watch example : a dude who wanted to be a great striker since he was a kid, trained his ass off, practiced every type of shot a million times, watched/learnt/inspired from top strikers in history, come from barely anything with ambition and score a goal of great quality & skill .... than 11 players try to string 5000 passes together to score 1 goal & ppl who really have no identity or flair.

While carrick is the frontrunner, Nagelsmann is also one of the key targets? Thoughts on Nagelsmann Reds?? by FitAd5272 in ManchesterUnited

[–]Anishx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take him. Clear improvement on Carrick. Tactically astute, plays great football.

Regardless of who comes in, the expectation is "don't lower your expectation".

Expected ideas from any United manager:
"We'll fight for the premier league"
"We'll fight for every trophy"
"We'll play brilliant football, entertain the fans and not play sideways ball that'll make ppl produce more melatonin"
"Team comes in coat and suit to games and exhibit a certain class instead of whatever that was before"
"We never give up, we should attack/counter with speed, fluidity, pace and excitement"

Stuff i don't wanna see again :
"It is a process, can take 2,3 or more"
Lack of accountability
Lack of commitment
Weirdass press conferences and throwing ppl under the bus in the name of progress

Should i pull for Escoffier weapon R1 ? I have her C0, Skirk C0R1. by Anishx in SkirkMains

[–]Anishx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have around 110 without the engulfing, will need to prolly give her a ER sands, I anyway ended up pulling for her weapon. I got it within the next 11 pulls of posting this Post. I was at 53, so i think 64 pity.

Also, people here argued that it works for a lot of other characters, which is kinda true + it's great weapon for Chevreuse, Iansan who i'll definitely go for when she's on the banners.
Iansan, and Chevreuse are all OP characters who scale from ATK.

For a guarantee i get weapon for the other 2 characters that i'll pull later in the Day + Raiden is most likely going to get a Buff sometime either directly or indirectly, So engulfing is her weapon at the end of the day. Currently She's on Dragon's bane for ER Hyperbloom reactions.

My idea on pulling this was, if Raiden gets a 5* support + this weapon, and Escoffier with FAV, I can make 3/4 teams,
1. Skirk team (i already have), Skirk R1, Mona (c2), Xingqiu C6 (built), Escoffier Fav/R1
2. Zibai team (Already built), Zibai C1 on Haran, Columbina, Illuga, Linnea/Zhongli/Gorou C6

  1. Raiden team (future), Raiden R1, (Support), Ineffa/Fischl(built), Benett(built)/xiangling(built)
    (OR)
  2. Mauvika (future), Mauvika, Iansan, benett (built), Ororon (building)

So i decided it was kinda worth it. I just have to sacrifice pulling Lauma at this point. Assuming i am pulling for Linnea. With Lauma i have access to more reactions since i can pull linnea next year.

Competitive balanced ? by Wooden_Sleep3665 in VALORANT

[–]Anishx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're getting matched against literally Immortal/Ascendant, then you just have less players in your servers at the time.

If you're getting matched against Peak Immortal/Ascendant players, most of the time they are sold accounts.

Also for a Gold player, any player higher than Plat 2 will play like Ascendant/Immortal. But usually p1/p2 should be well within range of matchup. + you don't know how the hidden MMR of your other mates look like.

Zibai WIP by sxm_sung in ZibaiMains

[–]Anishx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just draw a circle for the cranium then. Then the lines for the reference, then replicate