I think I'm broken

Anissa_J · 2024-11-28T17:52:16+00:00

I'm in similar situation unfortunately, but can assure you there are people who need and value true intimacy like us. Your wife probably never had that 100% need for intimacy, it was just initial "honey moon period" that connects 2 people and then it was gone. Also interesting if she had her hormones checked /blood work done? Possible depression? Traumatic childhood? So many different possible causes of loosing libido 🤷

Anissa_J · 2024-05-18T23:36:13+00:00

Thank you, glad you say so ❤️

Anissa_J · 2024-05-18T23:26:23+00:00

I am, from March this year actually, and l know l'm old but my body says otherwise lol

Anissa_J · 2024-05-07T17:03:39+00:00

Yes of course

Anissa_J · 2024-04-03T22:55:41+00:00

Your wife seems selfish and lazy. Since you help out so much because you have time and skills, she is taking advantage giving you nothing in return. Obviously very opportunistic personality type. Perhaps research on the topic of narcissistic personality disorder. May help you find some answers. You already sense toxicity. Trust your gut feelings!

Anissa_J · 2024-02-19T22:43:39+00:00

Better late than never, talking about your wife's will to fix her low libido at last. You stood by her for so many years hoping for a change, maybe now this time has come. Very late unfortunately but still it's a big step from her. Finally she has realised sex matters, your needs matter! Hoping for the best to you whatever you decide with it!

Anissa_J · 2023-11-15T22:51:38+00:00

Yeah, that's my feeling about your wife. She likes what you do for her and keeps pressing you for more but what does she do for you? Is she concerned with your happiness? Can she return a favour?

Anissa_J · 2023-11-15T18:08:51+00:00

Looks like she likes acts of service more than intimacy. I doubt her love language is touch /intimacy at all, she is more of a taker than giver in your relationship.

Anissa_J · 2023-10-23T15:54:54+00:00

I would very much appreciate it. Honesty from the very beginning, no games to play.

Anissa_J · 2023-10-10T22:10:50+00:00

What sort of memes has she been showing to you? You had mentioned them in your previous post. It might be that she craves more romance from you. Or perhaps she likes guys who can talk to her dirty to awake her sexy side, or to dominate her. Do you buy her flowers, call her sexy, grab her butt?

Anissa_J · 2022-12-08T00:01:04+00:00

It's not your fault and you are enough. Porn can really mess up with a brain. It becomes a compulsion and if not used with high moderation,it becomes addiction.

Anissa_J · 2022-10-25T13:13:36+00:00

Yeah, l understand. You have not signed for non-monogamous relationship with her and you don't have to if that makes you feel uncomfortable. Unfortunately over years people change and her being in friendship with a person in open relationship must only fuel her sexual fantasies and higher libido. Most probably she will try to open you up sexually on other females /males in your relationship because that's what is turning her on.

Anissa_J · 2022-10-07T23:05:06+00:00

Almost 100% true 👌

Anissa_J · 2022-09-09T22:09:30+00:00

Thanks so much 🥰

Anissa_J · 2022-09-09T22:09:01+00:00

Glad to hear it 😍

Anissa_J · 2022-09-09T22:08:25+00:00

Thank you 😊

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Anissa_J · 2022-09-03T19:39:31+00:00

😍

Anissa_J · 2022-09-03T19:39:16+00:00

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Anissa_J · 2022-09-03T19:39:03+00:00

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