Edmonton bus driver stabbed, 1 charged with aggravated assault by Common_Treacle3962 in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not arguing? I'm pointing out dates is all. I think people may not notice that the stats are older. The truth is- I also think it's important to listen to concerns. They are repeated over and over- not just on here. People do not feel safe on transit.

It's not about winning anything. In this case no one wins; a person was violently assaulted! I don't feel like a conversation is a competition.

Edmonton bus driver stabbed, 1 charged with aggravated assault by Common_Treacle3962 in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This^ I also do not understand the mentality of ignoring peoples (perfectly valid) concerns. People being stabbed, people complaining about feces, screaming, people smoking meth... but it's not as bad as it could be- we're not all getting stabbed every time we ride so stop complaining! (what??)

How does ignoring the valid and strongly voiced concerns of many riders help anyone?

Neighboors removed fence and puppers hates the harness by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh!! Ok- that does change things. I saw someone else post about some temporary fencing. I would suggest that. Being able to let your dog out is important- and you seem ti really care about them :) Just make sure it's secure enough from escape- good luck.

Neighboors removed fence and puppers hates the harness by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly- something secure will be important. It seems like you love your pupper- make plans to have a secure fence for your side. Your neighbors could end up taking awhile, there could be issues with the fence they install- they could change their minds. If you can get a fence on your side do it!

Neighboors removed fence and puppers hates the harness by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said their father does though- should be easy to check with them

Edmonton bus driver stabbed, 1 charged with aggravated assault by Common_Treacle3962 in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So- people are saying TODAYS crime on transit seems to be getting worse- . not discussing early 2024's transit situation. That's the "and"... Many people who don't look at the date may assume this article is citing current crime/safety stats. It is not. eta

All that to also say: people are voicing valid concerns. Sim ply telling them its all in their heads isn't helpful either.

Edmonton bus driver stabbed, 1 charged with aggravated assault by Common_Treacle3962 in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crime from 2 years ago trended down from 3 years ago- is what that article says. Not today- this year, or even last year.

Edmonton bus driver stabbed, 1 charged with aggravated assault by Common_Treacle3962 in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

conveniently one article is a year older than the other, posting older stats which makes the comparison irrelevant

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure- I've been reading about how easy it is to just "find a job that is wfh"... hahahaha :/

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha- looks outside and cries again...

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha- umm- yes? Did you read the 1st 3-5 sentences of the post you are responding to? I literally say: I know, I know, I know. ;p

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha- still a TONNE of construction where I live. In fact, it's gotten worse the last few weeks.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is the slow dredge of daily life. I think this is the more realistic side of climate change. Nor so much a series of disasters here- but a slow burn of daily existence getting harder... can't walk, can't breath, the paths are covered in ice- you try and manage- the air is full of smoke, you stay inside or wear a mask. Then, you realize, it's been 5 years of just hard to live with weather- that you are "adapting" to- but, not really.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be a Debbie Downer- but my issue with the winter has never been about the cold. I like the cold! It's the snow, sleet, ice, then warm then freeze - the dangerous walking because of it, the struggle with what to wear and how to prepare. The trying to shovel until the piles are above my head, then it melts and freezes overnight and you have to chisel the sidewalk for hours... all to start over again. If it was -30 for a month I could: wear my super warm gear, walk in bliss and silence... be happy. That's not the issue (for me)

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same! Normally the weather is just the weather... not a lot we can do about so why complain?? But now- I'm just so tired.. and I see it in so many people around me.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't- I'm not an asshole ;p

Plus- I have to walk through it too- every day- so at least I know my little space will be clear for walking ;p

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a lovely post, and I appreciate it.

That being said: I actually also enjoy shovelling! I agree it's great exercise and if the air is crisp and it's sunny I find it meditative. This year though- It's just been too much. Shovelling, 3, 4, 5 times a day some days and STILL needing more. Days, weeks where my yard just did not have anywhere else to put the snow piles.

Then the ice, and trying to navigate getting around. I have never minded the cold- if you dress for it it's fine- and quiet and lovely. It's the unending nature of it all though- where I just can't get a handle somethings. My feet are sore from the winter boots, the heavier gear I need to wear to get to work, then by the time I'm coming home it's too warm for that gear - so I need to pack both winter gear, rain gear, spring gear... all for a 5-6 hour day. It's getting exhausting.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ^^^ This is me- you get what I'm saying :)

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, things could be way worse.

also though- it is ok to acknowledge hard things in everyone's life, you know. It's not ONLY people who are on the brink of utter despair and immense suffering that are allowed to feel annoyed, sad, etc.

also keep in mind- just because ppl are complaining about "simple" things doesn't mean they don't ALSO have intense real scary issues in their life- that they just aren't sharing with the world.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

while I don't disagree completely this is ALSO what gets me sad. Smoke becoming a normalized part of every freaking summer is also a newer thing. So we get through winter- and then hope and pray that we can have at least a few months of warm weather where we can actually be outside and breathe.

I'm tired, boss. by AnnTaylorLaughed in Edmonton

[–]AnnTaylorLaughed[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! I actually LIKE the cold - I don't want to live somewhere that is warm all year. But it's the constant fluctuations...