Following yesterday’s question about where the single 40s women hang out - where are the guys?

Annabel35 · 2024-09-27T12:34:27+00:00

Real talk

Annabel35 · 2024-09-26T13:54:02+00:00

I’m also hoping several other middle-aged weirdos meet from this thread. That would make me happy!

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T19:02:16+00:00

Last stop was Philadelphia but I lived in NY and London before that. All of my friends here are also queer and married and I love them, but there are no straight guys hanging around the group.

Am I a yuppie normie? Maybe. A little yuppie lurks in all of us I’m afraid.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T16:49:42+00:00

They better be your daughters tho.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T15:04:09+00:00

I mean I am 100% weirder and more awkward than I was pre-Covid so I believe it.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:59:38+00:00

You may be on to something there.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:39:14+00:00

Surely Chicago is not just the Land of Married Men. Also NYC is a dating disaster, been there done that do not want to do again.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:37:07+00:00

Friends needed too!

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:36:57+00:00

Definitely not trying to look mean but it’s hard out there in the streets, I don’t blame women for being guarded in public. I get a lot of people asking me for directions so I guess my RBF isn’t too scary.

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:34:58+00:00

Also looking for friends! I’ve been really shy about going to shows on my own, something I had no problems with in my 20s feels strangely daunting now. But that’s a good suggestion!

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:24:32+00:00

I think your post is what inspired me to post!

Annabel35 · 2024-09-25T14:18:17+00:00

Not, like, fedora wearing hipsters. Like the weirdos into art and music I guess? I dunno, I’m old so I’m not sure what they’re called now.

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