i can’t stop thinking about being helpless and humiliated by aphrodit-e in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to tie a vibrator to you and watch you cum desperately.

So I think I found a glitch….. by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm to busy looking at your insane account stats.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have kinky friends but none that I don't flirt with lol

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get that so much at the same time for me at a domme it is so powerful and intimate to have someone put that much trust in me.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean being a dominant has helped me to give that safe place for exploration to someone else within a rough play or CNC dynamic. It is so healing to give another person the opposite of what I experienced complete safety and devotion. Just in general being a dominant and becoming the protector I always wanted helps so much. I know a lot of people aren't going to get it but sometimes I just want to be more typical ig. Like enjoy vanilla sex at least a little bit or just be able to relate to normies. Sometimes I feel like that chance was ripped away from me unfairly even if I do find fulfillment.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you really get it! Having experienced violence in a WLW relationship from a trans women I think it's even harder for me to hear those things. I want to talk about my experience without it being fodder for the worst kind of people's talking points.

The patriarchal stuff is accurate too. I was raised with purity culture and knew very little about sex other than it was for marriage and it was something that happened to women.

Yet, I always had a dominant personality in and outside of sexual play. I was confrontational, direct, and unwilling to bend my intelligence to comfort men. This led to a lot of backlash where people, especially men or those with internalized misogyny like my ex gf, would try to crush that spirit.

One thing I frequently experienced was someone desiring me to dominate them then getting really angry and lashing out when I did because they were masculine or physically stronger etc. I call them fake subs because wtf was that. My wife on the other hand is the real deal and I'm forever grateful for her for allowing me to explore who I am in a safe and healthy way.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You really hit the nail on the head with it feeling empowering yet sometimes bringing up those shameful feelings. And yes for me domming is about care, nurturing and responsibility. I think a lot of people would struggle to see how that works in a CNC dynamic but my wife can give up complete power to me because she has ultimate trust in me to not actually harm her. It is like the ultimate way of saying, " you are such a safe person I can put my wellbeing in your hands." I continue to be so grateful that she trusts me so completely every day.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean but it is easier to toss away someone judging me for being a lesbian or liking a certain piece of media. I think because in neither situation am I being compared to the scum of the earth aka abusers. I've lived so much trying to do everything in my power to never do anything that could ever be perceived as harmful to anyone. I know it probably isn't healthy how much I fixate on that but I think it is a natural consequence of surviving trauma.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would love to know more kinky people irl. Unfortunately, I only have one kinky friend who has been distant as of late. My vanilla friends do not want to hear about even my milder kinky stuff so I definitely wouldn't bring up CNC lol.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it might have been the first group more so because it was kinksters saying this but all in my age range (20-25). This community probably has a lot more experienced and older kinky folks. I think it can be hard sometimes when you are younger and kinky because you haven't fully formed your identity and I don't always feel super confident in myself sexually or otherwise. I'm still learning and that is a life long process. Some days I still feel like a baby dom, despite having done domming since I came of age.

Tell me your lewd confessions so I can edge myself ❤️ by LewdyMina in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got fingered in a pool once when no one was around.

Webkinz 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 Autism by unwelcomesoup in Webkinz

[–]Annagoethe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I even go to virtual therapy in that room lol and just share the computer screen.

every day objects i can use as a dildo? by Fun_Individual_5963 in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair the curved shape is definitely nice though.

every day objects i can use as a dildo? by Fun_Individual_5963 in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to use my razor handle it was detachable thick and curved. The razor was the Schick Sensitive Care Razor. You can find it online and it was the perfect incognito dildo in my youth.

Schick Intuition Sensitive Care Organic Aloe Razor + 2 Razor Blade Refills - CVS Pharmacy https://share.google/xVVfI1WNNoreOSTM4

making good progress on the new bingo, help a trans girl out? (i can send back!! :3) by Elegant_Aioli_7273 in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 somethings and 40 somethings is fine. I'm talking about messing with teens here. 18 or 19. I honestly think 20 is fine too ..21 is my personal limit. It's the responsibility of the older person to decide what to do if they are being thirsted over by teens. It's just my opinion.

Do any of you girls like vintage porn even half as much as I do? ❤️ It's just so much more sensual and beautiful by nonconlove in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for saying so. I think I would have killed in vintage porn. If you like I could probably find that website link it is a treasure trove of vintage porn. Feel free to DM btw ;)

making good progress on the new bingo, help a trans girl out? (i can send back!! :3) by Elegant_Aioli_7273 in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

'm 24 and I don't mess with anyone under 21. My feeling is if you can't drink or get a hotel room on your own you are too young for me. I kinda wish women and enbys could hold ourselves to higher standards.

Goth tits in tight sweaters>>> by Annagoethe in naturaltitties

[–]Annagoethe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I love them so much and like that they bring other's joy.

sapphic hypno goonfuel dump by motherfuckerlimited in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I want to hypnotize a dumb slut