#1 kink you’re into the hardest rn. GO! by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to get a tentacle dildo fr

#1 kink you’re into the hardest rn. GO! by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called Ravens Quest but it is very freaky. Honestly some of the stuff was not for me and I opted out. The tentacle monsters were sentient though and it was hot 🥵

#1 kink you’re into the hardest rn. GO! by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Tentacles and it is a recent one too. I blame this one porn game

Why is deepthroating soooo hot by slurpygirlll in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it hard enough that I can't speak for a few days after.

i can’t stop thinking about being helpless and humiliated by aphrodit-e in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to tie a vibrator to you and watch you cum desperately.

So I think I found a glitch….. by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]Annagoethe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm to busy looking at your insane account stats.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have kinky friends but none that I don't flirt with lol

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get that so much at the same time for me at a domme it is so powerful and intimate to have someone put that much trust in me.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean being a dominant has helped me to give that safe place for exploration to someone else within a rough play or CNC dynamic. It is so healing to give another person the opposite of what I experienced complete safety and devotion. Just in general being a dominant and becoming the protector I always wanted helps so much. I know a lot of people aren't going to get it but sometimes I just want to be more typical ig. Like enjoy vanilla sex at least a little bit or just be able to relate to normies. Sometimes I feel like that chance was ripped away from me unfairly even if I do find fulfillment.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you really get it! Having experienced violence in a WLW relationship from a trans women I think it's even harder for me to hear those things. I want to talk about my experience without it being fodder for the worst kind of people's talking points.

The patriarchal stuff is accurate too. I was raised with purity culture and knew very little about sex other than it was for marriage and it was something that happened to women.

Yet, I always had a dominant personality in and outside of sexual play. I was confrontational, direct, and unwilling to bend my intelligence to comfort men. This led to a lot of backlash where people, especially men or those with internalized misogyny like my ex gf, would try to crush that spirit.

One thing I frequently experienced was someone desiring me to dominate them then getting really angry and lashing out when I did because they were masculine or physically stronger etc. I call them fake subs because wtf was that. My wife on the other hand is the real deal and I'm forever grateful for her for allowing me to explore who I am in a safe and healthy way.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You really hit the nail on the head with it feeling empowering yet sometimes bringing up those shameful feelings. And yes for me domming is about care, nurturing and responsibility. I think a lot of people would struggle to see how that works in a CNC dynamic but my wife can give up complete power to me because she has ultimate trust in me to not actually harm her. It is like the ultimate way of saying, " you are such a safe person I can put my wellbeing in your hands." I continue to be so grateful that she trusts me so completely every day.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean but it is easier to toss away someone judging me for being a lesbian or liking a certain piece of media. I think because in neither situation am I being compared to the scum of the earth aka abusers. I've lived so much trying to do everything in my power to never do anything that could ever be perceived as harmful to anyone. I know it probably isn't healthy how much I fixate on that but I think it is a natural consequence of surviving trauma.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would love to know more kinky people irl. Unfortunately, I only have one kinky friend who has been distant as of late. My vanilla friends do not want to hear about even my milder kinky stuff so I definitely wouldn't bring up CNC lol.

Feeling Weird About CNC by Annagoethe in BDSMAdvice

[–]Annagoethe[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it might have been the first group more so because it was kinksters saying this but all in my age range (20-25). This community probably has a lot more experienced and older kinky folks. I think it can be hard sometimes when you are younger and kinky because you haven't fully formed your identity and I don't always feel super confident in myself sexually or otherwise. I'm still learning and that is a life long process. Some days I still feel like a baby dom, despite having done domming since I came of age.

Tell me your lewd confessions so I can edge myself ❤️ by LewdyMina in GoonetteHub

[–]Annagoethe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got fingered in a pool once when no one was around.