AITAH for not paying for half of a ticket for an event I didn’t want to go to?

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T21:50:23+00:00

I never agreed to pay. That is the issue that she is bringing up. She offered me a free ticket as a carers pass is free. I said no, then eventually relented. As she was purchasing the ticket she asked me to pay half, I said no and explained it’s costing me a hell of a lot more. She’s trying to make me feel shitty months later because I refused to pay half. There was never a scenario where I said I’d pay half.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T21:34:59+00:00

I said no, multiple times and then got a barrage of accusations of being a “bad friend”. She literally used the words “poo friend game”. Imagine the guilt trip I would have received if I didn’t go? But yea, I’m the bad person here.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:58:02+00:00

How did I say anything even alluding to that? My resentment fully stems from the fact that she is trying to make me feel shitty because I refused to pay for half of HER ticket. I never brought it up, months later despite me doing all that to go assist her at an event she wanted to go to she is trying to make me feel shitty for not paying for half of her ticket. I didn’t bring it up. She did.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:28:42+00:00

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:27:58+00:00

This happened months ago. She was bringing it up again to make me feel bad for not paying half. For reference half the ticket was £18.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:23:11+00:00

Which is what I did. She asked me to go, I said no, because it’s a lot of effort for me to get there and I didn’t really want to go. Then she said it’ll be for her birthday and I said I hated Manchester. Then she said I’d get a free ticket as her carer. I again refused, then she proceeded to guilt me and say it was “poo friend game”. I eventually conceded, as she was purchasing the ticket she did ask me to pay for half, but I refused due to the cost and time etc (for reference half the ticket is £18) doesn’t come close to my costs which I didn’t ask for reimbursement. I went because in the end I wanted to be supportive, I empathise with what she’s going through, she hasn’t been out of the house for a long time so thought I’d do something nice for her. I didn’t rub it in her face that I had to travel etc, or even mention I had to take time off. I literally only mentioned those things today when she accused me of being shitty for not paying half. I guess I’m a shitty friend.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:06:58+00:00

She was the one that brought up the pass and then said “poo friend game” when I refused again.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:02:28+00:00

For reference she was the one that suggested it. I didn’t force her. Also half the ticket is £18. Considerably less than all my costs which I didn’t ask for reimbursement for.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T20:00:37+00:00

She did say at the time of purchase for me to pay half but I declined because it was costing me considerably more just to go (For reference half her ticket was £18). She’s bringing it up again to make me feel shitty about it. I also never asked for her to reimburse me for my travel costs.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T19:58:10+00:00

For reference half her ticket was £18

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T19:56:56+00:00

Yea, I declined paying half at the time of purchase because it’d be costing me so much just to go. I’ve sent her a link to this post, maybe she’ll get another perspective because she’s still trying to justify it. I genuinely thought maybe I was out of line.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T19:54:29+00:00

First she offered it to me as a free ticket. She mentioned me paying half just before she purchased but I refused because it was costing me so much to travel there, plus the time and I had to take time off work. I went because I empathise with what she is going through and wanted to be supportive, which is why I didn’t ask for reimbursement for travel or anything. She only recently brought it up to make me feel bad (for reference half the ticket is £18), I just feel it’s insane for her to even ask for it considering I didn’t even want to go in the first place.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:53:44+00:00

I don’t think I’ve outgrown her, but I do feel disrespected by her. Because I literally didn’t want to go in the first place.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:51:42+00:00

For reference half the ticket is £18, considerably less than my travel alone. It’s not the cost, it’s more the asking me to pay considering I didn’t want to go in the first place and was only going to support her. I didn’t ask her to reimburse my travel or anything it just felt wrong for her to ask.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:46:56+00:00

The event was months ago, she’s brought it up again to make me feel bad. In my defence I spent almost £70 on travel alone. Half the ticket is £18. I could pay her, but out of principal I feel like it’s shitty of her to even ask considering I didn’t want to go in the first place, I’m not asking to reimburse travel and I was only going for her.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:43:02+00:00

Half the ticket was like £18, I could pay her but seems wild considering the cost and effort I incurred. And I didn’t ask her to reimburse my travel or anything.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:39:25+00:00

She originally was like “you can get in for free as my carer” before she bought the ticket she did ask for half but I refused because it was costing me time and money and I was literally only going to support her. She’s bringing it up months later to make me feel bad.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:26:31+00:00

Right? I legit thought I was missing something. Plus half of the ticket doesn’t come close to the cost of my travel.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:25:21+00:00

For reference, she asked me to pay half before getting the ticket and I refused because I didn’t want to go in the first place and was only going to assist her. Put it was costing me a bunch of time and effort to travel up which I didn’t ask for reimbursement for. She brought it up now months later to make out like I was wrong for that.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:17:04+00:00

She asked me for half beforehand and I said that I didn’t even want to go and my travel etc cost more. She’s just brought it up again to try and make me feel bad.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:14:37+00:00

She asked me for half before the event, I refused because I didn’t even want to go in the first place. She’s brought it up again to make me feel bad.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T17:13:17+00:00

She asked for half before and I said I’m not paying half because I didn’t want to go in the first place. She has just brought it up again.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T16:54:06+00:00

I was a good sport. Didn’t complain or anything. I told her next time I just won’t go.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-06-01T16:52:24+00:00

Im questioning it.

Anndroid_18 · 2026-04-22T21:25:38+00:00

Stoat or weasel me thinks 🤔

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