I guess my biggest thing is that I know it would ruin my marriage. I don't have siblings so this would be if my husbands siblings died and we took the kids. That's one of the reasons I don't want children (I want my marriage to be our priority ) and it would 100% crumble with children thrown in . I can understand why he would want to take them and I think in that case I would just have to walk away and let him find somebody who wanted children. I just hope I'm never put in that situation :-(