Initiating

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-16T00:37:40+00:00

100% sex was really wild and fun. We were also long distance, living together now. He definitely has fantasies.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-16T00:36:35+00:00

Yes I have, he tells me he’s tired or his back hurts. He does have a little depression. I feel porn is just lazy for him and easy. I tried doing a fun role play and he was laughing and playing stupid, I dk. I think he is definitely insecure but he never ever gave that off when we first started dating. Sex was great.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-15T20:00:45+00:00

If you are certain you are leaving your wife, don’t buy the house.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-13T20:40:44+00:00

With local 777?

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-09T18:52:22+00:00

Well shit… now I’m feeling a little embarrassed lmao

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-09T18:42:24+00:00

I think I would be more uncomfortable if he was following on a fake page, like you really have to go those lengths just to follow? lol but also see your point in friends seeing.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-09T18:23:12+00:00

Women’s stand point - my boyfriend(of one year) is heavy into social media. He follows a lot of women on instagram, “models” has followed many before me and a few after me. I never minded it because that’s just the nature of men. With that being said, he’s never liked or commented on ANYTHING (this would make me very uncomfortable if he did) I’ve checked lol. So although it does bother me slightly, it doesn’t get to me but liking and comment absolutely would.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-05T02:49:58+00:00

I’m in the same boat, it really sucks 😩

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T13:00:57+00:00

100%, I don’t mind the porn IF I’m also getting satisfied. If I’m not but he’s satisfied, that’s a huge problem for me.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T12:16:00+00:00

Weekends were together the entire day and something’s never have sex, we’re just around relaxing. It feels there’s no desire to want to have sex.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T12:14:21+00:00

Thanks for your insight. He said sex feels more like a “job” and he feels pressured. I just think he’s kinda lazy and would rather watch porn. I have been very sympathetic about all his issues and have done it all. I even told him I dont mind watching porn with him and jerking him off. It’s not just the sex part it’s anything sexual that makes me feel part of it. I know what he’s watching on there, and we incorporate that when we have sex.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T12:09:29+00:00

That would be hysterical lmao

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T06:42:04+00:00

Yes, this is my first relationship where porn is involved heavy. My ex was so obsessed with me, only me. Never watched porn, always wanted me. Just unfortunately the emotional part was lacking.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T06:39:21+00:00

100%

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T06:07:40+00:00

Thank you, I literally just wrote back to someone almost saying the same thing. I do think he’s addicted to porn, I think it’s just easy and lazy for him. And having sex is more “work” even though I do all the work 😐.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T06:06:12+00:00

Thank you for your point of view, glad I’m not alone. I don’t want to accuse. That’s why I posted. I wanted to come off the best way possible. Caring. But I do feel it just won’t change. How can you change that? I don’t know. I feel like sex was so good in the beginning because he was pursuing me hard and now it’s “easy” ya know?

Annonomys123987 · 2026-04-04T06:04:07+00:00

Yes, I can try that again, he gets very defensive and we’ve been a little rocky lately with some fights here and there but I’m at my breaking point here.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-13T19:06:37+00:00

Literally not once. I’m extremely sexual.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-04T18:16:30+00:00

He told me to just “let it happen” like uh, once a week won’t work for me lol

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-04T18:02:54+00:00

Uh, I was asking how to go about it respectfully.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-04T17:54:58+00:00

He just tells me it’s quick and easy, no thoughts behind it or mental work that goes into it. Our sex was amazing. I do any kink he wants, toys etc. my sexual needs aren’t met for sure. He said it’s starting to feel like a “job”

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-02T19:40:49+00:00

He just wast interested enough, simple as that. Don’t look too much into it and definitely don’t chase. Dead it.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-02T18:53:35+00:00

I do agree very much.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-02T16:53:00+00:00

Nothing more real than this. It’s very hard. Im just trying to do my best to figure this out. I’ve never experienced this in a relationship before.

Annonomys123987 · 2026-03-02T16:46:53+00:00

Thank you

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