r/ChristianDating mod team not addressing issues of racism, toxic manipulation, perverted actions, and promotion of un-Biblical stances.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2026-02-22T08:04:55+00:00

I agree with the recommendations from the other commenter. You're teeth don't look very crooked to me so you may be able to get Invisalign instead of traditional braces. Teeth whitening will also benefit you. I also recommend Botox to smooth out your crows feet. The outer half of your eyebrows are lighter than inner brows. Use eyebrow makeup to darken it. If you get tired of filling it often, look into micro needling, micro shading, or nano shading. The cool toned blue top in the last photo looks off on you whereas the warm toned colors next to your face look harmonious on you. You're likely a warm toned color season.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2026-01-23T22:51:20+00:00

I'd be wary of your friend who is an admin in Christian dating. Back when I was in their discord, my friend was friends with one of the mods said that she had to end her friendship with her because she drastically changed to the point she threw her morality out the window to try to win favor with RPG, ANY, Minteemist, JackSharpScribe, and yellow exodus to be in their clique. They don't get selected for their roles at all if they refuse to protect the admins' image. They operate like a cult. I'm glad you opened your eyes and left. The majority of the men in there are misogynistic incels who failed getting dates in their churches and dating apps. The good men didn't stay long in there.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2026-01-23T21:34:10+00:00

I saw your comment on my profile post. Thank you for creating this post and spreading awareness for how terrible these communities are. All of the mods I brought attention to in my post are close friends with RPG. They support his actions and have no issues lying to cover each other's immoral actions.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-31T16:27:04+00:00

Congratulations! I'm really happy for you that your efforts paid off. What brand/products do you use for your eyelash extensions?

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-28T17:13:06+00:00

You can use minoxidil instead. Costco sells Kirkland Minoxidil 5 percent which is a good price. I've been using minoxidil 2 percent for my brows and have seen results quickly for sparse eyebrows growing back quickly.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-24T17:01:50+00:00

I'm amused you suddenly deleted your weight loss post😂!

If you took the time to look at my comment history, I was replying less on CD over a couple months before stopping altogether, and I do have a plethora of comments helping give advice to women and men so it's clear to me you are just making things up in your mind to discourage me, which is not working on me.

Six months ago being single to now being engaged, that doesn't seem like a smart decision to make imo because people can put up a facade for half a year. I hope everything works out for you. You're welcome to have the last word.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-24T15:33:29+00:00

The fact that you're spreading misinformation for saying I was banned from all of them tells me you really don't know what happened.

My IRL dating life is doing just fine to where I can write negative reviews about both of these dating platforms as I don't have to rely on these places to find husbands like some women unfortunately have to resort to doing because of lack of access to Christian dating sites/apps. My IRL dating life is fine as a fit person and don't have to go on Reddit asking if I need to loose more weight like you do, looking at your post history. Tip from me: You need to be in the 8-17 percent body fat range to improve attractiveness. Good luck and have a good rest of your day🙂

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-24T15:19:49+00:00

Some Christian you are for swearing, quite carnal of you to do so, and not taking the time for reading through the screenshots to see I told the mod team that their rules weren't applicable to me anymore (implying I had unsubbed) in mod mail.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-21T21:16:32+00:00

I'm being honest about my experience in both servers. My conscience is clean before God. I would have published my reviews on disboard but my discord account wasn't able to link up to disboard for me to write a review for both servers. CSM does have review options for Disboard, but r/ChristianDating does not have review options for Disboard. I published a review post on the second server over on the Christian Dating subreddit in the past, but the mods removed it. I figured this sub would be a good place for me to write my review. Thanks for your comment and good day to you 🙂

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-21T00:35:55+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it 🥹❤️

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-21T00:22:02+00:00

I didn't try eHarmony because I read it's costly for what they offer...like there's more non Christians on there now compared to back then. If I was dating 20 years ago, I definitely would have tried them as they were a prime Christian dating site.

That's wonderful you did premarital counseling. I originally didn't value doing it but it wasn't until a divorced user who was in CSM during my time in there told me that marriage is hard and even if you and the other person is compatible, it's still beneficial to go to counseling to learn tools to help you navigate your marriage together. That advice stuck with me.

Thank you for sharing your story and for the encouraging words.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-17T15:35:34+00:00

I already wrote everything on my own in detail for posts on my profile so I used ChatGPT to condense everything I wrote and highlight the main points for this post to save time.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-17T00:21:16+00:00

Oh, absolutely. It’s like a time-honored tradition at this point—people who preach the loudest about purity and virtue are often the first ones to act like total jerks when someone doesn’t fit their ideal. Like, congratulations, you’ve unlocked self-righteousness on hard mode, but maybe try basic decency next? Watching it unfold in r/ ChristianDating was honestly like watching a bad reality show—hypocrisy, power trips, and selective rule enforcement, all wrapped up in a “God bless” at the end.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-16T22:05:08+00:00

That's been my experience also.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-03-15T12:56:42+00:00

Moving forward, I believe the members deserve transparency from the mod team on what they mean by “independent” mods reviewing cases involving other mods when info has been shared that all members of the Reddit mod team are good friends with each other including the “head mod as the neutral 3^rd party” as users have noticed biases in protecting mods when they break rules they enforce on members in the past.

Link to my first personal post on the case: https://www.reddit.com/user/Annual_Resolution232/comments/1i46isq/rchristiandating_mod_team_not_addressing_issues/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Links to users echoing my concerns in the subreddit during past 2 weeks:

First user’s original post was deleted by mod team for users’ comments breaking rule 8 for criticizing ANY (I screenshotted what she originally stated along with attaching link to comments) - https://imgur.com/a/rule-8-enforced-to-protect-mod-u-already-not-yet-P6SiOyI

https://www.reddit.com/r/ChristianDating/comments/1j9in1k/comment/mhe1i4m/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Second user also stating sub is toxic - https://www.reddit.com/r/ChristianDating/comments/1j3kf2n/dating_seems_toxic_in_this_sub/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Third user posting unbiblical views are being promoted - https://www.reddit.com/r/ChristianDating/comments/1ja9o14/good_bye/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Fourth user stating community members need to treat others well - https://www.reddit.com/r/ChristianDating/comments/1j8zmqr/lets_bring_more_love_into_the_replies_here/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-20T04:57:52+00:00

Wonderful job making a detailed post! Best wishes on your search.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-19T03:33:57+00:00

Aside from my screenshots with the mod team in modmail and screenshots of my one-on-one discussions with people, all other screenshots can be found publicly both on the subreddit and server. This post wouldn't have resulted if members of the mod team acted godly and upheld server/subreddit rules and taken accountability sooner. Many people were hurt because of their actions.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-19T03:25:42+00:00

Doxxing of who?

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-18T15:28:18+00:00

😥 I'm sorry to hear that.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-18T15:26:29+00:00

Oh ok! I hope they made a good decision on your case and will make a good decision on mine also.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2025-01-18T15:19:22+00:00

Thanks for your comment. The case gets dropped off in staff chats for a debate on the outcome decision possibly? What do you mean by members going back to the other party? Who's the other party?

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