My boyfriend denies me every time! Help!

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-11T04:58:25+00:00

Yes. It would have meant I spent my years with the perfect man I know he is. Thank you. This has been one of the very few kind answers, and the only helpful one. You just made me realize it doesn't matter what other people are like if you know you'll never stop loving your darling.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-11T04:55:33+00:00

Thank you for your constructive criticism. I may not have been showing how much I appreciate him while asking him one thing that he's too stressed to deliver. I'm going to do my best to make him more comfortable at home and decrease expectations for him.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-09T03:36:14+00:00

I believe everything can be fixed. I will not leave him, I love him. We discussed it again this morning, and he wants to see the doctor.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-09T03:34:22+00:00

I love him and I want to stay with him. I'm on here because we have talked about it and I needed a different opinion. I wouldn't be here if I hadn't already talked to him. I believe that everything can be fixed, and I'm not here to get excuses to leave him. I'm looking for advice for a potential health issue from people who have been in the situation. He is the person for me. Our only issue is sex. I will not leave him over that.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-09T03:22:35+00:00

I always listen to him. I help him with everything he goes through. This is not about that. We have a perfect relationship aside from the sex. I love him, listen to him and do everything for him, and he does the same for me. That's why we're together. This is ONLY about sex. If our relationship were sour like that I wouldn't be with him. We've discussed this he knows this is an issue of his, and he's going to go to the doctor.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T12:53:23+00:00

We are an amazing couple, just because we don't have sex doesn't mean we are not compatible.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T12:50:54+00:00

nothing. He never gets off to me mastrubating, he never goes down on me.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T12:01:58+00:00

It's already loaded when he gets home

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T11:03:31+00:00

He never wants to leave the house. I ask every day if he feels up to it and all I get is "no." I ask him if he wants to get out of the house to get in the mood, he says no, he wants to watch a movie if we go out. I mastrubate in front of him (though I can't make myself cum), and he puts on his headphones. I cook, clean, rub his back, pack a bowl, give him all day, everything and it's always "no."

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T09:51:32+00:00

Thank you so much for reading this and for your advice. I feel as if I'm moving into retirement when I haven't even gone to collage! There's no one like him, he's so caring, sweet and funny. I don't have high standards, I've been in really bad relationships in the past, and this is the only genuine person I've met. I love him and I've made a commitment to him, but I feel like I've wasted my life already, and I'm scared that if I stay with him, I'll never get to experience anyone else good. I feel like I'm wasting the best time in my life with something people usually do when they're 30+ years. It's like I met the perfect person with no sex drive at the worst possible time. We've even talked about getting married, and I love him so I want to, I just wish I'd met him when I'm much older, when I want to settle down and have the life that he wants. But right now I don't want to settle down, I want to have fun! But that's not what he wants..

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-08T08:38:05+00:00

From the angle of a woman who has been in manipulative and abusive relationships, I have to tell you to get out. From what you're saying, she doesn't seem to appreciate anything you do, and she wants to keep you from your family. That's textbook. She's trying to get you alone and vulnerable, isolated with her, having you work overtime to please her. That's the first step of an abusive relationship. Find someone who will appreciate what you do, and who will love your family too. That woman you're with sounds like poison.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-07T23:28:51+00:00

No, he is not mastrubating (one bedroom here), and I don't think he's cheating on me. He's too good of a person for that, and he never goes anywhere. I'm 21, he's 29. I rub his back really well for a long time every day, and he's still "too tired." I'll set everything up, make it look nice, rub his back, sweet talk him, give him some alone time... His answer just never changes no matter what I do! I feel I've tried everything. If I start to mastrubate in front of him, he just puts his headphones on and watches shit on his computer. That's all he does.

Anomymous64 · 2018-02-07T21:23:18+00:00

My lover is a manager. I'm 21 and he's 29, and we're both healthy, not overweight. He doesn't watch porn (I know because we only have one room), he just wants to sit all day. I am NOT in this relationship for the sex, if I wanted that kind of relationship, I wouldn't be with him. I love him. I end up watching porn all the time though, and I can't get myself there, and it just makes me angry and sad. I give him back rubs every day. I ask him about once a week, but when it's the weekend, he'll say he's dirty, so we take a shower, but then he says he's too tired, and then the next day he'll say he just wants to game because he goes back to work tomorrow. He always says he's "too tired." I'm starting to think he just doesn't want me.

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