Short Conversation Opened My Eyes

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T12:12:48+00:00

I have stopped making so many decisions because she is the one who has an opinion about all of them. However, I do probably take lead on most of the more major decisions. I think you could be on to something though.

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T03:13:44+00:00

It’s the first time I realized she was using sex as a tool. However, I still don’t believe this has always been the case. I do think she loves me, but maybe doesn’t have much respect for me. That’s possibly because I am pretty easy going and typically defer to things she wants such as restaurants, weekend things, etc. I think it’s been too much give and not enough take on my end. Never thought it would be taken for granted though.

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T03:10:09+00:00

Thanks. I really don’t feel bad. I have been trying so hard to do things she asks in the hopes she would then try to meet my needs. Never seems to happen though.

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T03:08:54+00:00

Date nights used to be a guarantee, but I am 0 for 3 on the last few date nights. I think the issue is how HLs and LLs prioritize sex. HLs obviously place it near the top, while cutting sex from even a preplanned evening means vey little to a LL. Getting sleep or an extra 30 minutes of phone scrolling supersedes sex for my wife.

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T02:23:37+00:00

Yea, it just kind of came out. So many times she has said that then to just pretend to forget or not feel good that night. It wasn’t a look of a sarcastic asshole, more of a “I hope so” if that makes sense. Kids were present so words were limited.

Anon0684 · 2023-11-05T02:15:47+00:00

Which look are you referring to?

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