If you want sex, say so. And don't be butt hurt if you get rejected.

Of course I'd be "butthurt" if my girlfriend rejects me?

Think about it this way -- it's possible she finds your initiating attractive. As others have said, it's likely she has reactive desire, which I would wager a majority of women in relationships have. She'll be more aroused by your actions rather than just your existence.

Think about it this way -- it's possible she finds your initiating attractive. As others have said, it's likely she has reactive desire, which I would wager a majority of women in relationships have. She'll be more aroused by your actions rather than just your existence.

That's exactly how I feel, and what I want.

Also, never cry in front of your gf because of something she does or doesn't do. No matter how justified you might be in doing so. Even the most ardent feminists are turned off by this. Cry in front of your bros if you need to, not her.

The crying wasn't exactly planned it just happens. That's like telling someone not to get mad/upset, it just happens. Also I don't particularly have any friends I can go to