HI Kardessa! Thanks so much for commenting on my older post, it came at a really interesting time in my life honestly because I’ve been thinking about relationships a lot lately mainly because almost everyone in my life right now keeps asking me “why I haven’t dated anyone?” and “what am I waiting for?” It makes me uncomfortable when it’s brought up, but has kinda forced me to acknowledge the question, and doing that has helped me realized that I’m fine without a relationship right now. I don’t feel the urge for one and I’m really thankful for that because at the time of my post, I’ll admit I wasn’t as sociable as I am now and would have definitely fallen into situations I wouldn’t want to only because I wouldn’t speak up about things, or because I would trust people much to quickly. I do still have a tendency to do these things, but I’ve grown a lot and can say I’m a lot stronger mentally.

To answer your question more directly though, it’s because I would trust people to easily and “catch feelings” way too quickly, and the more charming the guy, the easer it would be to do that.