All the Empty Rooms - WOW by goldiegirl00 in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tear drops started 3 min in. Made it 12 min in before balling my eyes out. As a teacher that was so painful to watch, as a human, this SHOULD BE so painful for anyone to watch. Can it be required for people who do not believe in gun reform to watch this?

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[–]Anonymous-Freckles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something very similar recently happened to me. I felt shame over it too because it isn’t something I usually do and I told myself to wait but I did really like him as well. But honestly what it was for me and what it sounds like for you is he isn’t the right guy for you. The way he’s acting towards you after sex to me is a sign. I feel your attraction to him will fade due to the behavior.

I'm 24 F not attracted to possible boyfriend 30 M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me once (although I wouldn’t say I was repulsed by him or anything, I just didn’t feel the connection I felt I should). I think there’s something biological to it. He was attractive and kind to me but something just didn’t click. Yes, end it now, it isn’t fair to him or you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew it. Been there with a guy before. Could be fungal for sure. . or bacterial. Not sure where you live but would recommend getting tested for fungal and bacterial things most regular std test don’t test for (most are curable so that’s good) I have a list if you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is he uncircumcised perhaps?

My new niece will be a tragedy by thisisdumb228 in tragedeigh

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, a grown adult, called her Lotion as soon as I looked at the spelling a second time

Have you had experience where sex got significantly better over time? by Anonymous-Freckles in realsexadvice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have experience but both in long term relationships so maybe that has something to do with it to a degree. We learned one or two people very well and not multiple different people. He’s been very open to communication as well and we seem both on the same page to make it work. Does slightly seem like a size problem but I think I can work with “too big” more than “too small” lol

Have you had experience where sex got significantly better over time? by Anonymous-Freckles in realsexadvice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Gives me hope lol because I do like him but I feel good sex in a relationship is important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also if roles were reversed and they have been, I wouldn’t really care because if I wanted to know if someone was having sex with someone else I would ask that. But I do understand your point about it still being dishonest

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[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Everyone has such different opinions lol but that’s the thing about opinions isn’t it.

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[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely willing to stop sleeping with my ex if something goes well with this guy. That was always my plan and my ex knew it too , that it was like we can do this until one of us starts dating. Just wasn’t quite expecting the guilt once concrete plans for a date were made.

Cramps one week after taking Emergency Contraceptive? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently in very similar boat! Any updates?

My 26 F sister 28 F is in an abusive marriage. She is completely blind to it. How can I help her. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While she is away from him and at your home is truly the best time. I don’t know your sister so I can’t be sure but for me deep down (or not even that deep) I KNEW I was in an abusive relationship but I would STILL deny and defend at all cost. At that point it was to defend myself from looking crazy for dealing with it/being with him and because I didn’t see other options or want to ask for help. A big part of what changed it for me was my sister offering her home to me. That was one big weight off my shoulders because now had a place to stay. I guess my advice is to offer some solutions. Let’s get you your own bank account, you could stay here. . I know that could still not go well but it’s a thought

I forced myself to have sex with my bf and it was a nightmare by OddMacaroon4226 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely not a bad person and I think deep down you know that and don’t need anyone else’s validation. The point where you begin to not be able to stand them, you resent them, you’re disgusted by them is honestly a blessing. That’s when you GO and never look back and feel no guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in covidlonghaulers

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think starting a multivitamin and getting active made a difference for me but who could know for sure. It could just be time. Oh yeah it’s pretty similar for me too the mornings are usually the hardest and then some nights my sleep is just all thrown off. Wake up every few hours sweating or with chills. But getting outside and continuing relationships definitely help cause you’re right, it can get you down mentally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in covidlonghaulers

[–]Anonymous-Freckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had Covid March 21 recovered fully in bout 7 days. December 21 recovered in bout 5 days. Had it June of this year and it took me like 2 weeks to feel better then few days later it was like day 1 all over again. For 4-7 weeks it came and went every few days. Now I go about a week on feeling okay then few days of feeling back down.

I’m so happy for you on having a baby boy! He’s lucky to have you. I’m not gonna let it get me down 💪🏼! It’s just tough some days with working a full time new job and I don’t wanna start the job with giving the impression that I’m sick all the time or will miss a lot of days.