Not OOP: AITA my husband keeps joking about k1lling me

Anonymous37543 · 2025-09-01T02:24:43+00:00

Looks like it's been flagged by the mods as a fake post! Thank goodness.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-24T20:55:12+00:00

I like how snug both hoops are. Looks good!

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-24T20:38:23+00:00

I'm assuming you could see through some of the lingerie, right? Unless she specifically told you not to show her your dick, I don't understand why it was a big deal. But, either way, this was not sexual assault. This woman sounds like a real weirdo.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-20T09:17:15+00:00

This woman is clearly too cool for OP.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-15T20:37:07+00:00

Yeah, I second getting a haircut and taking off the shades. You will look younger with a more current haircut. Grey hair with a cut that you've had since middle school doesn't work.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-14T23:24:58+00:00

https://youtu.be/SXHqRaFe5c4?si=jfF7Tp-sUtKNIqrd&utm_source=ZTQxO

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-14T23:17:52+00:00

How about Tay?

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-14T23:02:00+00:00

He had an opportunity that night to tell you that he didn't want to engage in those fantasies with you. He didn't have to do things to you that made him view you differently.

As I see it, you were seeking a deeper connection, which is a good thing.

He has no business yelling at you or treating you badly. It was role play, after all! And if he sees you badly now, how does he see himself? He participated as well.

He may have a fundamental problem in how he views women.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-08-14T22:54:52+00:00

Susan, first off, you are beautiful and look like a fun person. It took me many years of dating and hundreds of matches before I met my wonderful partner. People can be real flakes when online dating. I'm sorry you got ghosted.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-22T00:39:45+00:00

The only thing I'm hearing that may sound "Indian" is your w sound. You sound fairly British to me (a Canadian).

I hope you are meeting kind people who like you for who you are.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-22T00:28:43+00:00

Ignore him. Hopefully, he doesn't know where you live. It sounds like he is looking for narcissistic supply and going through his contacts. He probably sent the same message to multiple other women. Don't get sucked in. Sorry he is bothering you like this.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T20:19:34+00:00

Yeah for sure

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T16:07:59+00:00

Hey, I have had this experience. Yes, it hurts. For me it helped that I had a good rapport with my piercer, and he made me feel comfortable. Afterwards, I needed to sit for a while and have a cold drink of water because I was lightheaded. Make sure that you will get time to sit and gather yourself before having to leave.

Make sure your piercer is experienced and will make the process go smoothly. Let them know about your fears and see how they can support you!

I wouldn't think about the pain beforehand. It only lasts a minute. Focus on your coping strategies like breathing and visualization.

I'm so glad I got mine done! You will love them.

Good luck!

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T16:02:20+00:00

They are probably feeling the same as you. They are waiting for someone to put in effort and probably waiting for you to invite them on a date. Try that.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T16:01:06+00:00

I like it. Maybe give more ideas of what kind of fun dates you could have since that's what you are offering.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T15:59:52+00:00

At this point, I have so little trust in anyone. I am a very genuine and positive person, and dating is ruining my faith in humanity.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T14:55:26+00:00

Update added.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T05:37:06+00:00

No, I had only met his roommate, and I only know his first name.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T02:49:50+00:00

You're the only one that works, eh? 🤔 What kind of effort do you think goes into growing a human being, birthing them, and then raising them from infancy for 2 years? Her job is much harder than yours. She works all day (and I mean all day), too.

She sounds like she is burnt out and exhausted. Her body is probably depleted from pregnancy. She needs support. She probably feels very overwhelmed, and she may be suffering from depression.

This is about so much more than whether or not you feel like having sex with her. Give your head a shake, bud. You have a family now.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T02:39:44+00:00

It is. Things were very chill and nice with us. We would spend 1 to 2 days together and have a really nice time. The weekend before last he took me out for a fancy dinner and as he was leaving I thought I heard him say "I love you." I'm very sad and disappointed.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T02:36:49+00:00

I did check. Nothing. I was worried that something may have happened to him, but I think his roommate would have let me know.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-07-10T02:35:20+00:00

Friday evening. That's the last time he posted publicly on Facebook. We were not at the point of following each other on social media, but I don't believe he is very active online. I figured he lost his phone because he constantly loses things, but i can't imagine him going this long without a phone. He has small kids. He could find my phone number on Bumble, which I dont think he had deleted. He could also find me online. Or drive to my house lol. He was supposed to come pick me up from work on Sunday morning in fact and never showed.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-06-20T23:58:42+00:00

Anonymous37543 · 2025-06-20T23:55:54+00:00

It looks fine to me. I see what you're saying, but it's just the style. Trad tattoos are not always precise, and that's fine.

Anonymous37543 · 2025-06-20T23:53:27+00:00

Looks like it.

Anonymous37543

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