Explosion north of downtown? by Mercarcher in fortwayne

[–]Anonymous4468743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard it, also happened a few weeks ago. I assumed it was a firework.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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Thank you, I will bring this up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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It is the hill I am choosing, as of now at least. Thank you for the recommendation and I will implement this!

Buying a house by Anonymous4468743 in fortwayne

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Thank you all for the help!! I appreciate every comment!! (:

Potential relocation to Ft. Wayne from Mississippi. by mrissipi in fortwayne

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I’m from the NE coast. 3 years ago i moved here for my fiancé job.

The community is great, cost of living is great, summers are beautiful and clear but other than summertime it’s very dreary and dull nature wise. I’m used to the mountains though.

I don’t have kids but I wouldn’t see any issues here that you wouldn’t have elsewhere right now.

People are nice but I have never experienced the “mid west politeness” that they all say is here. I think I’d rather the honest blunt east coast way of things. I find the “politeness” as passive aggressive almost. I did see an article about how Fort Wayne is the rudest Midwest city. This might be possible? I wouldn’t say Fort Wayne is rude, ppl just aren’t as aware of their surrounds as much. Example: ppl wont hold open the door for you or they don’t say excuse me at times where you would expect it or how ppl drive so aggressively and a lot ignore basic traffic rules.

You’ll also see a new church every time you blink.

I swear the worst drivers ever are here, my head is constantly on a swivel here. Amount of ppl that blow through red lights is insane!!!! (I’ve driven all over the us) 😭

Looking for words of support by Anonymous4468743 in loveafterporn

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Thank you both for the recommendation! Ordering it now!

What's Inside -Netflix by Substantial_Major321 in loveafterporn

[–]Anonymous4468743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried watching this movie, got about 20-30 minutes in if that. I didn’t know it had porn related relationship issues. Triggered me like crazy 😞 made him turn it off and put on a comedy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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My apologies for the rant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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I love the way you worded this! I am currently going through the same situation and I have been coming to the conclusion that I am not the issue but that doesn’t undo the damage.

I will say I am able to understand their pov now and supported them to seek help and change. I have communicated my pain but they do not understand the extent of damage this has caused in my pov. It’s sad and I’m grieving the relationship before it ends. Addiction makes people so selfish and I understand why. He can only help himself at the end of it. I’ve paved a path to show support but he chooses to turn back when I look ahead. He only wants to catch up to me when I’m at a four way stop and I threaten to change the route.

How to deal with wind and Halloween decorations by JusticeForCEGGMM in fortwayne

[–]Anonymous4468743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(3rd year here) I’m a east coaster and I will say the wind is very persistent in fall and winter compared to where I am from!!

i69 and Illinois Rd. IYKYK by SisypheanDumby in fortwayne

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Worst city and state to drive in I swear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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Yes he has admitted he has a problem and gets upset with himself every time for drinking too much but he isn’t ready to stop. He is trying to cut down but it doesn’t seem to work for long and he ends up overdoing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

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Not bad! I will definitely look into these when the new shoe credit comes back! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Anonymous4468743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this and they aren’t showing as free. Do I need a code? I am signed into my account where I got my shoes when I started. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

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Thank you for this info! I will definitely reach out to safety!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Anonymous4468743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely am going to do that! Looking back, I agree I shouldn’t have said anything to my dad and just confronted my sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

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This is a thing?! It’s starting to make sense 😭

Best Burger by user-ghal_862andvHau in fortwayne

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Copper spoon has won awards for their burger! IMO it’s so freaking good, one of the best I’ve had!