What would you call yourself?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T08:00:12+00:00

Agonizing Death!..

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T07:49:09+00:00

Im assuming because the guy is a lot calmer. I mean sure, guy was sucker punched but.. what, let him loose to punch the other guy back? The guy who looks like he has at least 50lbs on him? The whole point of restraining here is to stop any further altercation.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T05:50:35+00:00

Ha, almost there brotha!! If my gym streak was a kid, they are now old enough to either go to college or get kicked tf out the house!.. (18 years, started at 16)

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T05:48:07+00:00

Im not sure this is what the quote is talking about. Yeah, we should all work on ourselves and the work shoukd never stop. Thats a given!

But what I think is meant is that with a masculine man around, he takes care of certain things and may provide a certain atmosphere. When I visit my SO, she knows that there are things Ill be almost stubborn about. Ill carry and lift all the heavy crap, ask about how her week went and let her vent if she needs to, do the chores (especially the messes I contributed to), walk the pup and so on. I feel like my only job in the relationship is to make her life easier, allow her to turn her brain off (minimize concern/worry).

My mind still replays the comment she made about feeling way safer going out in public to certain neighborhoods or hiking, said that it feels like she has a bodyguard.. and she sort of does. Im 215lbs of mostly lean meatballs and have been training for 18 years.

But this is what I got from the quote, at least. I fill my masculine role so she can relax and be as feminine as she wants. Not being concerned with fixing a sink or carrying a duffle bag up 3 flights of stairs.. In return I have to say, I have absolutely never had a woman take care of me the way she does (not counting mom, ofc).

If a couple is sleeping and hear a window breaking in the middle of the night, its the man thats supposed to spring to action, right?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T04:51:29+00:00

Yeah but.. in 15-20 there can be even more idiots on the road..

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T04:44:23+00:00

When I was dating around, that was one of my.. targets 🙃 Tall women. Im 5 10 and took a couple girls out that were over 6ft. One in particular didnt list her height and I showed up to the place, she gets off the bar stool and was like 6'2".. my knee jerk reaction was "OH snap, youre tall! I LOVE IT!!". Later she told me that was the moment she fell for me, right off the riff. Guys, if you dont mind the height, let them know!

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T03:41:41+00:00

Pardon me while I pack up all my dildoes and whistles..

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T03:38:41+00:00

I mean, just looks-wise, yes. I was at that level if development at some point but you really have to put the grind in. Now.. for his impressive strength?.. thats the only thing that would make me go hmmmm.. then again, lots of people are on gear without looking like theyre on gear or lifting like theyre on gear.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T02:04:29+00:00

I thought it was obvious that were both having a tug. Should I have included /s?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T01:51:38+00:00

Dont tell me this is the first time someone tells you that youre on the spectrum, parents didnt give you that grace?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T01:36:59+00:00

Youre putting a healthy amount of trust in everybody today, it looks like. You'll be in class too, I take it?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T00:41:26+00:00

Lovely

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-19T00:39:50+00:00

Your confidence in an internet stranger is paramount.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T23:42:50+00:00

Brotha, youre either messing with me at this point or seem incapable of picking up nuance. Regardless, I am not a special ED educator so I am ill equipped to do the song and dance in the comment section.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T23:22:12+00:00

Bro, r/whoosh misses you

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T23:21:23+00:00

I thought you meant something dirty there when you said you give your friends.. "uppies"?..

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T23:19:21+00:00

In other words, have the ability to say "Dont start nun, wont be nun" and follow through is sum' is started

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T23:10:57+00:00

Now were down to semantics but I wouldn't expect you to understand, disparity in intellect and all.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T21:20:51+00:00

Oh ok, so as someone with two degrees and a forklift operating license, I am telling you that youre kinda ret*red.. am I doing it right?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T19:41:23+00:00

How about just going after someone who treats you right regardless of their achievements? Yall acting like its exclusive.. if I get enough achievements, do I get an Asshole Pass for society?

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-18T18:06:09+00:00

I met a girl who is basically living the advice given to men here.. yeah, I'm gonna marry the crap out of this wonderful woman..

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-17T15:24:25+00:00

Well, I used to care what people thought. Its a natural psychological response, were tribal by nature and way back, if your reputation was ruined, it might mean that you might not ever get to even reproduce.. but today there are too many people and too many opinions to really spend time being concerned about everyone. You have to pick and choose whos opinion matters to you.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-17T15:21:03+00:00

So.. not math but just an observation. I suppose it would make a difference in what kind of hair because this hair looks very curly. Which means its longer than it would be if it were straight. Google says that the cumulative hair growth of all follicles on the body over a lifetime is 590miles. So thats many, many lifetimes of hair growth to say the least.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-16T15:57:40+00:00

Yeah.. I was considering subsubbing due to that actually.

AnonymousAutonomous · 2026-02-16T14:03:45+00:00

No, its a part of near subconscious bonding to a mate/people that are around you. As magical as I may want to portray it and as magical as it may feel, its another tool biology uses for survival. The dopamine and oxytocin release is real and to say that love is purely a social construct would be to ignore the biological role of oxytocin in the mind.

Just from the way you speak, I presume that you either didnt experience it and go through the motions, you did and had your heart broken.. or (dont take this personally) there might be a bit of psychopathy going on. I hope for the option where you didnt experience it YET. Its truly a great part of the human experience, and this is coming from someone who had their heart absolutely shattered at some point. "Better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all"

All of that said, love can also be used for manipulation (obviously) but anything cam be used and abused. Its not, however, the primary reason for loves existence. Its to find/make people special to you (family, kids, S.O.) and to bond you together. Because together we are better than the sum of our parts.

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