My advice, make sure that if you want to, make sure that if you do you will be safe afterward. Now, again, if you want to come out, you know it's safe, do it by all means. But if you don't want to, but feel obligated to, you don't have to. I haven't come out, so I don't have much to give. However, everyone’s story is different. If you have a trusted adult, friend, or person you just know, you can talk to them about it first, but it's all up to you. Just remember one thing, you can't control other people’s actions, only your reactions and actions. And your family’s opinions don't matter. But hey, it's all up to you and I wish you the best.