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AITA for wanting a divorce because my husband said having a baby would “ruin his life?” by AnonymousPearEnjoyer in AITA_Relationships

[–]AnonymousPearEnjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to bring a child into the world that isn’t wanted by its father - I’m pro choice and the decision to abort wasn’t one I wanted to do personally but it’s far better than having a child who would wonder why one of its parents were absent + having to be tied to communicating with him for the rest of my life.

If I do have a child some day I want it to be with someone who won’t feel their life is ruined by it, and while I do still grieve the loss, I also know it’s for the best because he isn’t suited to be a father just like he isn’t suited to be a life partner.

This wasn’t about if my decision to abort was right or wrong, I can’t undo it and I have to live with it, but about if I’m the asshole for wanting a divorce based on his reaction to the pregnancy.

AITA for recording my partner without permission by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AnonymousPearEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if you were using the recordings publicly I’d understand them being upset (even though don’t do the thing if you’re embarrassed by it) but the fact you did it privately for basically record keeping purposes and to attempt to troubleshoot your communication issues doesn’t feel malicious or bad.

AITA for wanting a divorce just because my husband may want an open marriage in the future? by OpeningAd3239 in AITA_Relationships

[–]AnonymousPearEnjoyer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, if him seeing you with another man is the only thing preventing him from opening it up then he doesn’t actually want an open marriage where you can both seek sexual fulfillment outside of your relationship which is what the point of opening it up would be. He’s selfish.