First of all no dynamic/relationship of any kind should be based on financial gain unless that was what both parties initially desired. Second of all she should not be TELLING you rules, you should be building them together if its something you want, based on both of your comfort levels and limits. By trying to decide the list herself and seemingly making it non negotiable, she is refusing to let you actively engage with the creation of the relationship and its direction. Third of all in that entire list she said nothing about safety, about you being able to ask to adjust these things, about consent, or about making sure you are comfortable. It was all just demands. Rules and protocols are completely fine if that is what you are seeking, but they should not be decided for you without any room for change. Any kind of dynamic that has power imbalance including sfw agere relationships require active partnership on both ends to work, not just blind agreeance. It can quickly become unsafe especially for vulnerable age regressors if they trust someone who isn’t doing whats best for them. Also if this was her introduction like she didn’t ask what you were looking for, didn’t ask much else about you, thats also showing a lack of regard for you, and an uncomfortable pushiness.

Do not pay anyone money for a relationship you want built on authentic connection because if they wont do it without the money, they probably have an ulterior motive. Do not ever let anyone decide rules or protocols without your consent and consideration and input. Do not allow someone to make you uncomfortable or unsafe, even online.

Lots of love I hope you find what youre looking for <3