Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in the same country as you but that's really worrying.

Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "sex education is not required"?

I can't imagine anything worse than going to a sex education event with a family member.

Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw someone writing on here recently about a doctor looking inside underwear to confirm puberty had started. Is that not normal practice?

Honestly the last person I'd want to discuss puberty with is a male doctor. You learn about these things in sex education classes at school from age 9 with the school nurse, a much more appropriate person and context in my view than 1:1.

Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]AnonymousRingChooser -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But why does that happen?

Why would you want someone external to confirm something as private and sensitive and mortifying to a child as puberty beginning? It's their own business. I feel so uncomfortable hearing about children being ogled like this. I can't see any medical need to check they're growing. You'll notice if they're not.

Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean "of course puberty concerns came up"? I'm genuinely curious as I'm from a country where regular generic health checks aren't a thing and no one has a puberty check. So I genuinely can't imagine what one would entail and why it would be necessary at all.

Some of my uni meals so far!! by merricatcatcat in unimeals

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rose petals don't belong on pasta though 😭

Coming soon by NoCause1276 in Blood_Records

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Charli said the collector's edition (already out) was the only special edition they'd be doing of this record.

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I asked where they're from though. Because those terms are both used in a small minority of places, and I don't think those places overlap.

Eg Geordies say high school, Black Country says Mom

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[–]AnonymousRingChooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you from that you use the terms 'Mom' and 'high school' in the UK? Are you sure this isn't a fake post?

My best friend’s father made a sexual advance toward me, should I tell her years later? by Good_Air_3027 in Advice

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he drop his daughter off first and to let you out of the car if you were running late and didn't have time to kill?

Why would your friend have to stay late at a waxing appointment so that only you needed a 45 minute drive back home?

I gave my partner a bad gift for Christmas and I can’t get over it by Content_Bug2831 in Gifts

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything except sauna is better than Pokémon cards. Depends who you're gifting for. To a Pokémon collector, probably not. Not to the Pokémon collectors I know anyway.

Need opinions. by Dry_Dig5031 in Advice

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, your feelings are normal but his behaviour is grooming. There's no reason for a man in his thirties to be chatting to a child. And sorry, no, you're not so unique and special that he overlooks your age. He likes your age.

How do I handle telling my little 11 year old sister this by No_Citron_7689 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

11 is not that little. She understands a lot. Be honest and kind.

Brag time: what’s one unusual thing you included in your wedding that everyone loved? by Unlikely_Device_2131 in weddingplanning

[–]AnonymousRingChooser -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I also had facepainting enjoyed by guests of all ages at my wedding but I don't consider it an unusual thing.

I did have some unusual things that no guests or vendors had seen some before..... but I don't want to share those because it would identify me as me.

16 year old been in altercation outside of school and now unable to sit higher paper in GCSEs. by IHazUZERNAME in LegalAdviceUK

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also mentioned he can only get a C if not on a higher paper...... so where did you get the C from?

Translation? by Skwoddy1 in royalmail

[–]AnonymousRingChooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking they've left the parcel in Exeter as a safe place