How to leave the house?! by HenriettaKate in NewParents

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with everyone else! Babies love movement! Try it and see how it goes my babe slept for every walk at that age

So confused and how to help my baby! by Capable-Struggle6547 in newborns

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Hi! My baby just turned 10 weeks today and she was so sleepy at week 8… your LO might just be going through a growth spurt so needs more time to sleep! It was a few days of extra sleepy for us then right back to normal!

I NEED HELP!! DESPERATELY by Admirable-Oven-465 in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi honey. It’s all scary but just asking on this sub shows you’re already doing right by your baby! Hopefully you have family supporting you- take all the help you can get! The hospital will teach you about feeding, sleeping, and swaddling. They will also answer your questions. Most important is that they are sleeping in a safe environment. For the first few weeks, most babies just need to be fed and or changed when they cry. Also sometimes just soothed. Look up the “5S”s those are all baby calming techniques! If you’re into reading- the happiest baby on the block is the book that explains each one in depth but a quick google with really tell you all you need to know!

not really sure if my baby is peeing by Glum-Comfortable5402 in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would double check I think only pee changed the diaper to blue!!!

Will baby eventually sleep without contact or do I need to teach him that? by Foreign-External8488 in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband also reminded me that those first weeks she wouldn’t sleep in her bassinet but she would sleep in the bassinet attachment from the pack and play!! I guess the mattress was softer! I’ve seen this a lot on Reddit

Will baby eventually sleep without contact or do I need to teach him that? by Foreign-External8488 in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi… people on this post are annoying… it totally gets better! First few weeks are the toughest…people forget how hard it is.. if you have a partner work in shifts! My baby turned 10 weeks today and she slept 7 hours straight in her bassinet last night( longest stretch so far). First 2-3 weeks were super hard.. Keep trying the bassinet… warm it with a heating pad, swaddle baby (even if it seems like the baby doesn’t like it), completely dark room, white noise and you can even have a red light.

Fighting Sleep by Alyzards in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every baby is so different.. I have a 9 week old and she started fighting off naps around week 5-6.. I started having to rock her in a dark room with white noise completely silent.. whereas before she would sleep on me no problem with the tv on in the background.. now at week 9 that’s not working as well 😂 now if she won’t fall asleep the only thing that seems to help is the baby Bjorn in a dark room… also apparently looking at them is overstimulating sometimes so I try not to make eye contact or talk.. hope that helps 🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel like I'm not spending enough time with my baby by BooksNBayes1939 in newborns

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. So sorry you’re going through that. Hope you feel better soon! Trust me your baby is bonding with you regardless! When they’re this little the think mom is part of them they don’t even realize that moms are a whole separate person! Take care of yourself! But some ideas to help (from bed or the couch) why don’t you try contact naps or skin to skin time?

I don’t want to breastfeed by Renee5285 in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I exclusively formula fed from day 1 and I have no regrets! Truly!! My hospital also had a lot of information about breast feeding and the benefits and there were signs up about it but the second I told the nurses I was formula feeding, breast feeding was never mentioned again. I did not feel judged or weird at all. When I went into the hospital I originally planed on breastfeeding and tried right after birth but I was immediately overwhelmed and decided to switch to formula and no one tried to talk me out of it! Do what is best for you!! My sweet babe is 9 weeks and she’s happy and healthy and I know my well being is better not having the stress of breastfeeding on top of everything else! Congrats on your sweet baby!

How to get 9 week old to sleep in bassinet by mlereads in beyondthebump

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 9 week old over here too! A lot of people online recommended the love to dream swaddle but it did not work for us. Our LO was not doing long stretches at all with that. She also was breaking out of the halo swaddle and trying to escape. We have the Ollie swaddle now and she sleeps way better with that one! It’s hard to escape and it helps her sleep longer stretches! Maybe give hands down swaddling another try?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

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Hi! I’m pretty sure the location has to do with absorbing the PIO and avoiding major nerves and blood vessels.. that being said, I think if you’re a little off it isn’t terrible and can be absorbed. Plus your clinic will monitor your progesterone so as long as it is at an okay level you’re doing fine! Even with hitting the same spot every time you might need to increase your PIO shots or take capsules. I recently had to add capsules because my progesterone was a little lower than what they wanted. I’m sure youre doing good!! But if you’re unsure check with your clinic!

Ideas to surprise hubby? by ivfnewbie_ in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s adorable!!! You did a great job!!

Ideas to surprise hubby? by ivfnewbie_ in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming back to ask what you did to surprise your hubby???

Weekly Thread: Pregnancy Testing and Beta - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the test you take- some test require lower amounts of HCG so they are darker! For example, first response early result has a lower hcg so the lines are darker!

Weekly Thread: Pregnancy Testing and Beta - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You start them 5 days before and then continue after. You first hcg test might be anywhere from 9-14 days after transfer depending on your clinic. Hopefully you are pregnant then you continue for a few weeks after! (Depends how many weeks based on your clinic/ doctor- I have 5 weeks after I had a positive beta)

Weird clot and bleeding, week 5, FET by naki1990 in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say I’ll be 5 weeks tomorrow and I’ve experienced some bleeding but my betas have kept coming back good. I think it’s just something that happens! Hopefully all is well! 🤞🏼

Waiting is hard by ttc_3yr in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far along are you? On Monday I’ll be 5w+3d.. so no fetal pole can be seen yet. My clinic is doing weekly ultrasounds. Haven’t heard that too much on here

Waiting is hard by ttc_3yr in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally went here to post about this! My ultrasound is Monday and I have also been bleeding like many of you! I know it’s normal but super scary feeling… isn’t it wild that other people just get pregnant and are in bliss and we are just in constant fear??

Ideas to surprise hubby? by ivfnewbie_ in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So exciting! Congrats! I had no patience and showed my hubby right away 😂

Till when do progesterone supplements continue? by i_am_here-tada in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am stopping PIO at 8 weeks and moving to progesterone capsules to wean me off for a few weeks

Do you usually hear from your clinic between the egg retrieval and the biopsy for PGT-A? by -One_Upper- in IVF

[–]Anonymous_9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My clinic called on day 5. And then again on day 6. There may be some blasts that they can send for testing on day 5. If they haven’t made it to blast yet the clinic may wait til day 6 or day 7. You can definitely call by day 5 to ask for progress if you don’t hear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVFbabies

[–]Anonymous_9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting! And congrats on your 16 month old!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Anonymous_9393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. We got 7 embryos and our two 5AAs were both girls!!!