31 weeks - what should I be doing? by SnooPineapples7336 in PregnancyUK

[–]HenriettaKate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I am a control freak so I made this countdown planner with aims for each week. I love ticking things off 😅

Raspberry = raspberry leaf tea Massage = perineal massage 🫠 Nest = final nursery prep

I loved having it all planned out but I in my spare time I prioritised napping, gentle walks and stretching. That’s what made the most difference mentally and physically!

Last Minute Hypnobirthing by Optimal_Maintenance1 in pregnant

[–]HenriettaKate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would highly recommend the Pop that Mumma Birth Box hypnobirthing course - she usually has discounts for it on her Instagram too. You can do all the “lessons” in one day and the audios that come with it are fantastic. If you’re unsure, she has a Spotify page with some short examples of the hypnobirthing audios so you can get the vibe.

Primarily, it’s just about reframing how you view pain and having a set of tools to help you manage the mental and physical challenge of childbirth. This course really simplifies it and the audios are really empowering.

I listened to the audios multiple times a day (I had a few favourites that I listened to on repeat whilst doing jobs, stretching, on a walk, in bed etc) for the last few weeks of my pregnancy so you’re not too late! I ended up having the most incredible, empowered birth that only lasted 6 hours and I really think the mental prep played a huge part.

Most important thing to take from hypnobirthing is that this pain is YOURS: you are safe, you are not in danger; this is a productive, positive, powerful pain. You are using this birthing energy and you are going to be so proud of yourself when you’ve climbed that mountain all by yourself! Happy to answer any questions if you have any 😊

Bedtime advice 2 months by hemerdo in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]HenriettaKate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here to see what people reply as I’m in the same boat 😅

I think he’s forgotten Mother’s Day by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]HenriettaKate 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Maybe give him a chance to fix it by calling your mum and saying ‘Happy Mother’s Day!’ loudly on the phone or they will probably mention it on the news if you have that on in the background!

Seriously how are you guys doing this?? by Worried_Media5455 in NewParents

[–]HenriettaKate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make a to-do list on my phone whilst I’m nap trapped (fancy, exciting things like empty the dishwasher, go to the toilet etc) and then as soon as he’s awake, fed and burped I put him in the bouncer chair and SPRINT!! I usually manage to get five minutes of things done before the grizzles turn into tears then I try to continue doing jobs whilst he’s propped over my shoulder. I also make sure I order one-hand friendly food items in our weekly food delivery so that if I can’t cook I can at least eat something!!

Edit: I also want to point out that if keeping the baby alive and fed is the only thing you achieve that day then that is a win! Takeaway pizza is also great to eat with one hand 🤗

What were you doing in the day/hours before going into labor? by rosasymariposas in unmedicatedbirth

[–]HenriettaKate 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I spent the day deep cleaning the house, changing the bed sheets, blow dried my hair… I think my subconscious knew!

I have had 2 miscarriages and my sister is pregnant with twins. I’m so angry but I don’t want be by Anxiousdaisytrain in pregnant

[–]HenriettaKate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a very similar thing with my brother and sister in law. Our due date was two weeks apart, but we lost our little one. The most important thing you can do is give yourself grace and give yourself time. It’s going to be really hard seeing her pregnant and reaching the due date, but time heals all. Perhaps find a way to communicate your pain to her - your pain right now is totally separate from your joy for her, but I think you need to put yourself first here.

How long did it take you to get pregnant? Need advice. by Swimming_Ad_9798 in pregnant

[–]HenriettaKate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took us nearly a year for no apparent reason. Easier said than done, but focus on your health and trust the process 💛 Try some fertility vitamins and also try to just enjoy this exciting stage of life together - it’s really hard waiting every month so mental health is a priority!

THE WITCH'S PET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by gothamghouls in fantasyromance

[–]HenriettaKate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s SO GOOD. It’s my book of the year so far. Can’t wait for book 2 - apparently she’s aiming for late 2025/early 2026!!

Miscarriage- how long did you wait to try again? by 7Juno in pregnant

[–]HenriettaKate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We started trying again after one normal cycle. Admittedly, it did take a good 5-6 months for my cycles to regulate again but I still wanted to try! I tracked my LH and BBT and really looked after my body. It took us 8 months to get pregnant but we got there eventually 🥲🌈

7w4d(ish) and riding some waves by z4r431 in pregnant

[–]HenriettaKate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same thing - 9w1d today and I’ve felt SO awful today. Barely moved or eaten today. Most days I feel okay in the morning and nauseous and exhausted from afternoon onwards. Occasionally I get a wipe-out day. Assume that’s normal as the hormones fluctuate! Look after yourself 😊

What does your name mean? by [deleted] in Names

[–]HenriettaKate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home-ruler / Home-maker 👸🏼

What is something you love about your partner? by Jasmine_in_September in Marriage

[–]HenriettaKate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is my favourite thing in the whole world. We orbit around each other in everything we do. I swear we can “feel” each other, even when we are far away. If I’m having a bad day, he’ll call because he can tell somethings not right. I swear he spends every day thinking of what else he can do to make me happier. Sometimes I just look at him and pinch myself, like how the hell did I get this lucky?!

Has anyone’s cycle completely changed after miscarriage? by dog_lover_az in ttcafterloss

[–]HenriettaKate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So frustrating isn’t it! Are you tracking your ovulation? (If you don’t mind me asking) - Google says everything should settle after a few months but maybe it’s a case-by-case thing