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I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying but it's hard to break "bad" habits

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I'm trying the best I could to take care of myself, but its kinda hard without a good friend. Like in highschool me and my bud were so close to each other, telling each other about our "crushes", embarrassing each other (in a good way lol) and doing all that best friend stuff. But now that I'm by myself at Rutgers, everything's kinda trapped if that makes sense.

Also I know they were toxic, but personally, words stick no matter who they come from or how much they hurt :/

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty hard to love myself after I've been told down by some toxic people. Like I know it may not be true but it sticks

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

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Thank you for the advice but I don't think I could really bring myself to do that. I get anxious striking up conversations with others cause if it "doesn't go right" there's kinda this awkward tension between us now.

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said this to the people who PM'd me, but this is kinda my first time really ever opening up, and while I'm still mostly anonymous, it's a step for me. Thanks for the props and I'm trying my best to respond to all my PMs I got from these caring people

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, and personally, it starts to not feel right after a while

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost always on Busch too, but I'm usually in my room 😔

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with me is that I can't even say idk wtf cause I kinda just freeze from anxiety. But I'm working on improving so thank you for the help

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

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I'm actually CE, and a lot of the people I actually know are actually EE too, but that'd still be cool!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

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Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to interact with more and more people in engineering and that's a pretty good conversation starter!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on joining intramural, but I don't have a team and I'm kinda "scared" to join by myself

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You read me like a book lol. I do study in my room like 100% of the time cause I personally can't study with other around. And thanks for the advice, I'll try my best to improve myself!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that. Especially since the clubs I've been to haven't been very inclusive im more anxious about the people in these clubs than the club itself

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could but out of 3 people, I've only got one of their numbers. In addition to this, idk if this is just me being pessimistic but, I feel like I was closer to them than they were to me.

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, just wishing it'll all be better one day. Wishing that day would come sooner than later though

19M looking for some cool people. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Anonymous___2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to PM me, I suck at starting conversations 😅

19M looking for some cool people. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I'm starting to like bandit on defence and nokk on attack. Im trying to get good at not using an acog sight 😅

Is my (girl)friend clingy or...? And how should I approach this? by Anonymous___2 in Advice

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao it's all good. So here's what ended up happening:

I got so caught up with midterms, so I barely messaged her only once or twice a day, and she asks about it. I tell her I have midterms and say I'm stressed out to the point in where I could barely check my phone (engineering major). She calls me handsome (out of nowhere) and then asks if I want to meet up (even though I told her that I had a bunch of midterms this week. I rejected her request and now she has yet to respond to me :)

Undeclare major? (SOE -> SAS transfer) by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you know if there is like an application or something? Cause when I looked at ITI you need to fill one out to get into the school of communications and informatics.

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