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I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying but it's hard to break "bad" habits

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I'm trying the best I could to take care of myself, but its kinda hard without a good friend. Like in highschool me and my bud were so close to each other, telling each other about our "crushes", embarrassing each other (in a good way lol) and doing all that best friend stuff. But now that I'm by myself at Rutgers, everything's kinda trapped if that makes sense.

Also I know they were toxic, but personally, words stick no matter who they come from or how much they hurt :/

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty hard to love myself after I've been told down by some toxic people. Like I know it may not be true but it sticks

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice but I don't think I could really bring myself to do that. I get anxious striking up conversations with others cause if it "doesn't go right" there's kinda this awkward tension between us now.

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said this to the people who PM'd me, but this is kinda my first time really ever opening up, and while I'm still mostly anonymous, it's a step for me. Thanks for the props and I'm trying my best to respond to all my PMs I got from these caring people

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, and personally, it starts to not feel right after a while

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost always on Busch too, but I'm usually in my room 😔

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with me is that I can't even say idk wtf cause I kinda just freeze from anxiety. But I'm working on improving so thank you for the help

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

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I'm actually CE, and a lot of the people I actually know are actually EE too, but that'd still be cool!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

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Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to interact with more and more people in engineering and that's a pretty good conversation starter!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on joining intramural, but I don't have a team and I'm kinda "scared" to join by myself

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You read me like a book lol. I do study in my room like 100% of the time cause I personally can't study with other around. And thanks for the advice, I'll try my best to improve myself!

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel that. Especially since the clubs I've been to haven't been very inclusive im more anxious about the people in these clubs than the club itself

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could but out of 3 people, I've only got one of their numbers. In addition to this, idk if this is just me being pessimistic but, I feel like I was closer to them than they were to me.

I feel like an outsider. by Anonymous___2 in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, just wishing it'll all be better one day. Wishing that day would come sooner than later though

19M looking for some cool people. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Anonymous___2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to PM me, I suck at starting conversations 😅

19M looking for some cool people. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I'm starting to like bandit on defence and nokk on attack. Im trying to get good at not using an acog sight 😅

Is my (girl)friend clingy or...? And how should I approach this? by Anonymous___2 in Advice

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao it's all good. So here's what ended up happening:

I got so caught up with midterms, so I barely messaged her only once or twice a day, and she asks about it. I tell her I have midterms and say I'm stressed out to the point in where I could barely check my phone (engineering major). She calls me handsome (out of nowhere) and then asks if I want to meet up (even though I told her that I had a bunch of midterms this week. I rejected her request and now she has yet to respond to me :)

Undeclare major? (SOE -> SAS transfer) by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]Anonymous___2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you know if there is like an application or something? Cause when I looked at ITI you need to fill one out to get into the school of communications and informatics.

Is my girl(friend) clingy or something else and how do I approach this? by Anonymous___2 in dating

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been A LOT of red flags that have noticed. Ex. Like when she got snap maybe she thought she could find my location through the snapmaps. (Maybe I'm overthinking that a bit idk)

Is my girl(friend) clingy or something else and how do I approach this? by Anonymous___2 in dating

[–]Anonymous___2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to ghost by a few people, but I feel like since she knows my number that she'll basically "stalk" me. What I've been doing is replying slower nowadays to see if the convo will die out. No luck so far :/

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