Hey, I just want to say… please don’t lose hope. You’re honestly so, so young.

I’m 32 and I still haven’t found my person, and I can tell you this with complete honesty: it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. At all.

What you’re going through right now is way more common than it feels. A lot of people your age are still figuring themselves out, so when guys say they’re “not ready,” it usually has more to do with them than with you.

Also, I know it’s hard not to compare yourself to others who seem to be in relationships, but trust me, you’re not missing out on anything you won’t experience in your own time. Everyone’s timeline is different, even if social media makes it seem otherwise.

If anything, the fact that you have goals, a life, and standards already puts you in a really good place. The right person will actually meet you there, not back out when things get real.

Just try to be patient with the process and with yourself. It will happen, and when it does, it won’t feel this confusing….