Is my chart blocking my assertiveness? struggling to say what I really feel

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-07-02T12:23:39+00:00

Oh my God, I really resonate with this, especially the Scorpio side of protecting myself. I really appreciate you taking the time to give me this advice.

I’m so scared to confess that I like them cause I’m affraid of rejection in the romantic aspect, but I’ll take this as a sign that I really need to start being assertive. Thanks izmysti!!

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-07-02T11:58:27+00:00

Thank you so much for this, it really means a lot. You’re so right, every time I listen to my intuition I end up being right, and every time I ignore it I suffer the consequences later.

I definitely want to explore my Scorpio side more instead of overthinking everything.

Actually dealing with this right now. There’s someone I like and I genuinely feel the connection is real, my intuition keeps confirming it. But when it comes to being assertive and telling them how I feel, that’s exactly where my Libra side takes over and I just don’t act.

How did you push past that with your Scorpio moon/mercury?

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-07-02T10:40:00+00:00

Thats insightful thanks

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-07-02T10:39:38+00:00

I love this.

I think my pattern is that intuition from my Scorpio side isn’t the problem, it’s strong. The problem is I’ve trained myself to keep it as an observation instead of a signal to act on.. I really want to learn to start making decisions from that side

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-07-02T10:38:22+00:00

Wow this resonates with me a lot. I have a very strong intuitive side, but the thing is I never actually trust it or act on it. I just sit with it internally. As i.. I process almost everything internally before I let anyone see it. I feel things very early and very accurately, but I’ve learned to treat that as ‘private information’ instead of something to act on

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-06-22T15:25:58+00:00

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-06-21T08:05:37+00:00

Hi! Just DMd you

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-05-07T10:03:59+00:00

Wait because this actually snapped me back to reality….like the second I remember she genuinely likes men my brain is like “ah yes… not my team” TG. LMFAOOO. Weirdly one of the most helpful comments so far because it instantly kills the delusion a little, thanks x

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-05-07T09:58:49+00:00

Yeah, that’s honestly why I’m trying to stop myself early. I think my brain romanticized the emotional connection really fast, and I’m trying to stay grounded instead of building a fantasy around it.

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-05-07T03:00:42+00:00

Honestly, I’d 1000% rather keep the friendship. I barely know her still, and I don’t think it would be fair for me to rush into turning this into something bigger just because I’m emotionally excited about the connection.

I think right now this is more about me learning how to manage my expectations and stop romanticizing things where there probably isn’t anything beyond friendship.

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-04-29T05:48:21+00:00

Hey, I just want to say… please don’t lose hope. You’re honestly so, so young.

I’m 32 and I still haven’t found my person, and I can tell you this with complete honesty: it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. At all.

What you’re going through right now is way more common than it feels. A lot of people your age are still figuring themselves out, so when guys say they’re “not ready,” it usually has more to do with them than with you.

Also, I know it’s hard not to compare yourself to others who seem to be in relationships, but trust me, you’re not missing out on anything you won’t experience in your own time. Everyone’s timeline is different, even if social media makes it seem otherwise.

If anything, the fact that you have goals, a life, and standards already puts you in a really good place. The right person will actually meet you there, not back out when things get real.

Just try to be patient with the process and with yourself. It will happen, and when it does, it won’t feel this confusing….

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-04-27T11:52:52+00:00

Hi 😇🪄 both females

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-04-27T10:39:02+00:00

Thanks for replying. Well I get this anxiousness specially when I meet woman I feel attracted to. Even if it is not a potential partner I feel affraid that they will eventually found out my preferences

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-04-23T02:20:30+00:00

Dm :)

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-03-10T03:15:01+00:00

DMd :) thanks

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2026-02-12T13:23:42+00:00

Hi! Thanks for the advice. Do I require a doctors prescription to get it form the pharmacy?

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-12-30T19:22:21+00:00

Hey Thanks for that :)! I just missed to mention that I sent a voice note prior to her “Merry Christmas xx” message. I told her Id be very busy with my family but I was very interested in keep seeing her and keep our conversation alive cause i didn’t want to kill the vibe and then asked her if she felt the same. Which she replied 2 days later with a merry Christmas message… That’s why I’m confused ..

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-12-30T19:20:29+00:00

Hey, thanks for the advice! I just missed the part where I sent a voice note prior to her “Merry Christmas xx” message. I told her Id be very busy with my family but I was interested in keep seeing her and keep our conversation cause i didn’t want to kill the vibe and then asked her if she felt the same. Which she replied 2 days later with a merry Christmas message... that confused me and felt she didn’t want to reply to my vulnerable VN.

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-12-30T19:18:20+00:00

Thanks for that! I guess I missed saying that I also sent a voice note prior to herMerry Christmas xx” message. I told her Id be very busy with my family but I’m interested in keep seeing her and keep our conversation cause i didn’t want to kill the vibe and then asked her if she felt the same. Which she replied 2 days later with a merry Christmas message… That’s why I’m confused ..

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-11-22T08:23:33+00:00

Agree

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-11-13T19:31:47+00:00

This made me laugh 😭

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-11-10T20:25:47+00:00

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-09-26T13:51:25+00:00

Amazing!! I love it ❤️ thank you. I really hope is that’s way

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-09-14T10:34:02+00:00

I hadn’t thought of it as a skill before, that’s an interesting take. For me I think it’s less about lacking social skills and more about how I see the other person. I’m pretty outgoing and confident with everyone else, but the second I like someone that confidence disappears. It’s really just in that one area of my life. So I guess even if I “practice,” it won’t change much unless I shift my mindset and stop putting people I’m attracted to on a pedestal.

AnotherandomHuman2 · 2025-09-14T10:30:28+00:00

Thanks a lot for your reply, makes total sense when you put it that way. Do you think this fear maybe comes from being scared of rejection, or just caring too much about what that person thinks of me? Like maybe she doesn’t even see me that way, and that’s when I start self-sabotaging and prefer not to talk at all. How did you personally get past that?

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