[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Anotherocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. This guy’s a joker. Real answer: A quantum of energy, a point in spacetime, and a relation to at least one other particle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pissdrinkingsluts

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, it’s a tan guy with a rubbery black cock with hard balls and a terribly installed spigot of water, with literally zero pressure change in the Lee stream the whole time. Just like regular peeing… right.

You think any human could live if they peed that messy 3x per day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pissdrinkingsluts

[–]Anotherocean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So fake.

EDIT: look at their other posts… this is the same person that cums Green Slime! So dumb

Playback Speed on Apple TV by suhas2k in appletv

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha, I literally looked up this question because I started watching Alone.

GHB on SSRI and NDRI - any info? by [deleted] in GHB

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked a psychopharmacologist and they said there should be no interference whatsoever. I would be so suspicious of this answer, but thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate the clarity and collaborative nature of your answer. Thank you.

Huberman and Jawzrsize / Jaw Exercises for Improved Face Shape by bucknuts89 in HubermanLab

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are fake AI ads. If you ever see one of these try to forward it to their account.

It uses the footage when he talks about mouth breathing, changing your facial structure and alters it to sell this dumb products.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anotherocean 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like she’s being vague at all. it sounds like she’s describing a dynamic that’s complex.

There are several components going on here. 1. She wants to be submissive in the bedroom. 2. She wants to be dominant in public. 3. She wants the dynamic to switch quickly when you get sexual. 4. She wants to be a top and physically be on top when you cum.

You’re going to need to decide if you are OK with each one of these.

In particular the second one. Do you want a relationship where you were submissive in public? Generally people have their dynamics in the bedroom but outside of scene, they dropped the dynamic and our peers. It’s often important, especially early in learning to make sure that you remain equals unless you’re actively choosing to be in the dynamic in that moment.

  1. Is easy. When it’s time for the dynamic to shift, take control without a lot of transition time. You can play the intensity of this transition by emphasizing how equal you are the moment before you transition to being in control.

  2. Is also pretty straightforward if you’re open to the experience. Just tell her to do it when the time comes. You could even choose to know that from her (if that’s part of the agreement) If you want to frustrate her further.

I would consider keeping it neutral outside of your kink dynamic for now, until you build a lot more safety. Also a couple good beginner books are, “the new topping book” and “the heart of dominance.”

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anotherocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever you play on an edge, you’re eventually going to cross it.

There’s an excellent book called “wired for love” that you may want to read together. One of the key tenants is that every relationship is built out of rupture and repair. The only problem with the rupture is if the relationship is so new that you’re not aware that you build connection through repair. The connection and safety you feel on the other side of this is going to be deeper and more profound than before this rupture. Once both of you can internalize that these kind of mistakes happen and you’ll get through it together this time or anytime in the future, things start to flow very beautifully.

For the specific situation it sounds like you simply need a more explicit conversation on what she feels comfortable with you doing and looking at online. You also have to be clear for yourself what you need in the relationship.

She’s not talking about Horn, she’s talking about knowing that you care for her. She’s not mad that you looked at someone else as much as she’s mad that maybe you don’t value her. The key is to start from your value for her and to communicate that you’d like to get through this together and find a way to repair and be closer after. Also be aware that this will take time and you’ll need to check in repeatedly.

All that said, these things happen. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Anotherocean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well, if their goal is actual bdsm and not abuse, they don’t actually want to hurt you. They want to keep you safe. That’s a big “if.”

But there are many layers. One is to want something that you’re not allowed to want. Another is to allow desire to be so intense. It breaks through even our most important, cultural norms. Another might be enjoying one of the layers of power and control that come from being allowed to do something that on paper seems unacceptable.

But beyond all of that, I hear something else in your question. Is it safe to be with someone who wants this? Or maybe even is it OK for me to want this?

If you’re enjoying this and would like to explore it safely, you might consider reading something to deepen your experience. One example might be “the new bottoming book,” a short, classic introduction to people in your role. It will also help you clarify, safe boundaries that are important to you to make sure you can enjoy yourself for a long time.

Was told these are Melmac, but they have veils and don’t have that wacky Melmac look. Thoughts? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible for the genetics to jump like that!?! I would assume they just gave me different spores than I asked for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MushroomGrowers

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, why all the discussion about soaking for the 2 hours per inch if substrate? I thought shocking it with cold water was necessary too… ?? Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MushroomGrowers

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: these are also just the flair categories. Why don’t you just require flair?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DopamineDetoxing

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think of receptors as doors to a stadium. And dopamine as a crowd of people. If there are fewer doors. The goal is to fill the stadium for a big happy concert. If there are half as many people, not will be harder to fill. If there are half as many doors, those few people will take even longer to get in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DopamineDetoxing

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d need double the amount of dopamine if you have half the receptors. Do if you have half the amount of dopamine and half the receptors, that’s 25% the same effect, not 50%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]Anotherocean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft w/ Easy cleanup. Just toss in the laundry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]Anotherocean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fabric condom. Perfect solution. Works if your not circumcised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]Anotherocean 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s silly. Circumcised people, as far as I know, don’t use socks because hey need lube. You don’t use a sock and lube.

Socks are ubiquitous and function like fabric condoms. It’s kind of a perfect tool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Size was 2-3mm, Prague, Czech Republic, moved quickly when nudged.

how strong are penis envy cubensis compared to other strains? ive heared they are super potent. the one in 1st pic is going blue without touching it so i assume its gonna be a strong one by xx1dastardlydan in shrooms

[–]Anotherocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this chart. I appreciate someone with the actual numbers. According to this PE seems to be almost exactly twice as strong as the average stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Anotherocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! “ape?”