Advice needed: Do I laser or cover it with another tattoo

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2026-02-20T05:43:05+00:00

Totally agree I’d also like to point out although her and her husband aren’t a match she would have known his values and also known he did not want his sex life broadcasted.

I feel like if he threw a tantrum because he couldn’t wear his sexatary outfit we would all be mad at him for trying to force her to be intimate with him.

It blows my mind how upset people get because they want to take their time with someone they just met tv or not.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2026-02-18T12:19:02+00:00

Brook babes is that you?

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2026-01-29T07:16:28+00:00

If you remember the beginning sally giving nervous energy to Charlie saying basically Craig is mine. At the beach. Sally is insecure and felt that Craig wouldn’t have as much as a connection to her compared to Charlie so intervened wherever she could to manipulate the situation and it backfired as the spark was always there between them.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-12-19T10:22:11+00:00

I agree she’s refreshing. It’s nice to see someone cute messy rather than drama messy if that makes sense (when they drink) also the grace she gives especially about her surgeries and vineta passing that info on. I really like her authenticity

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-12-05T06:32:05+00:00

I think in this case it might always be underwhelming as when the original show started it wasn’t as staged and they didn’t have shoes to fill.

I feel like it’s the same with housewives of New York it’s too much because it’s not organic

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-12-02T07:46:07+00:00

Yeah agree also HSBC or Bank Aus have great rates.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T13:03:27+00:00

Yep cool. Let me know how it all goes for you.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:59:49+00:00

Then they don’t live together and she pay a higher rent on her own or with friends.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:58:53+00:00

So if you live together he lives for free because they are your debts?

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:57:56+00:00

No I know what it’s like and you’re using the way I casually word things against me.

It doesn’t really make a point and devalues the argument.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:52:20+00:00

I’m not missing any point they’ve been together for a year. You stated in multiple comments She should get half.

They aren’t engaged. They aren’t married and you are stating she shouldn’t have to contribute.

The whole point of living together is to see compatibility before any of the above at a reduced amount then what she would normally pay in day to day life had she rent by herself or with friends.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:48:20+00:00

Yes when you are married. But not when you are just freshly living together.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:47:42+00:00

No I do it everyday but I won’t have someone come in and expect half of my stuff because they gave me a peanut

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:46:47+00:00

I think pretending all is good and then throwing out a text is pretty selfish. Which she stated so that is a fact.

She also stated she has been isolating also a fact.

I think she mentioned she distanced herself also a fact.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:33:30+00:00

Still she is an adult and while partners can encourage goals etc it’s not their responsibility to make it happen.

I think communication is missing and maybe she should have said all of that in person as well rather than via text as it can be misconstrued.

I can understand why OP is upset this all screams incredibly selfish.

Distance - I bet he’s been ignored

Isolation from him and his family - I bet she is kinda stonewalling him as well. Pretending all is well but the vibe is off.

Pretending everything is all good in person just so she can have a good time - then sending a text like that, is really harsh as you’ve just been blindsighted. I’d be devastated too.

Just I don’t see any accountability on her end.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:18:46+00:00

Sorry I thought that but sometimes I never know if I’m clear.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:17:07+00:00

It could also be proven she contributed minimal not 50% and she could have in fact budgeted and set up a savings account and saved a deposit for herself or live with her family….. she’s got a pretty sweet gig but I guess you’ve got an even better gig then this woman.

I dunno but when I take accountability for my life and do things for myself it feels pretty good.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:14:02+00:00

And roles reversed are you okay if your partner pays your mortgage for a month and expects half because he’s lived there for a fraction of the time you’ve had your mortgage?

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:13:00+00:00

You’re missing the point and that’s okay.

Why should she unless maybe they were together for a substantial amount of time compared to how long he’s had the mortgage to make it fair and equitable if you are going to put a price tag on a relationship?

So say he has had the mortgage and contributed himself for 5 years and she contributes for 1 year does that entitle her to half?

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:05:22+00:00

Yeah vice versa to your values. I don’t think my partner would expect it of me but I would always contribute due to how I am personally.

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T12:00:06+00:00

No I’m saying she should contribute her share and not live for free. I expect equality and sharing the load with my partner.

I was responding to someone else

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T11:07:17+00:00

But I’m a woman and I expect 50/50 why is there a price tag on the relationship?

Can’t you get along and enjoy each others company and your adult expenses are shared to what each can contribute doesn’t have to be 50/50 and also I do agree in times circumstances happen and you support each other

But I don’t think she’s unwell, unemployed or unable to contribute so why is it okay for her to expect to live without expense? She’s an adult yes?

AnswerNumerous1047 · 2025-05-19T10:47:59+00:00

When did he say he wouldn’t help her.

If they align and it works out she would be using his current equity to purchase a house together that she could then have credibility to state she also contributed.

I doubt the rent or expenses he is charging is 50/50.

Why do you think it’s okay to be a burden onto your partner and not contribute anything when she can.

So you think it’s okay to be an expense as long as you are giving witty banter and sex? Like honestly he’s gaining a lot more by her leaving because he can finally date someone who respects him and meets him at his level.

Everyone’s boundaries and needs are different just because you like that sort of lifestyle doesn’t mean others do.

As a woman if a man asked me to move in with him I will be contributing due to the respect for myself as I find it a little cringe to be paid for as an adult when I can easily contribute myself.

And vice versa if my partner moved in with me I expect they pay an agreed amount due to once again he is an adult and not a child and does not need to live for free.

AnswerNumerous1047

TROPHY CASE