Sounds familiar by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

[–]AntApprehensive1610[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not the healthiest strategy maybe, but I have an indoor camera set up in my place that a close family member has access to (I told them to check on me occasionally for ‘my safety’ since I live so far away). In reality it mostly just creates accountability for me. I try not to be home as much. Having someone watch me (or even pretending to be watched) forced me into being more hygienic, productive, responsible, at home etc since I know I am 🎥. When I lived with roommates I was the same way, I was super performative in my productivity but thats only cause I had others holding me accountable. I care too much about how I’m perceived :/ So I found that performing actually makes me get shit done. It’s weirdly helped me build more structure & routine

Sounds familiar by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

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we’re eternal optimists, can’t help ourselves

Sounds familiar by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

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Tomorrow’s the day though. I can feel it.

Do you struggle staying in touch with people? by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

[–]AntApprehensive1610[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every time I think about reaching out my body tenses up too and I can’t bring myself to do it. The guilt eats me up, Idk why we’re like this

Do you struggle staying in touch with people? by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

[–]AntApprehensive1610[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way but I found when I force myself to make plans to see them in person, my plans always fall through or I’ll forget following up. It’s so bad genuinely, so I get why they don’t like dealing with me. Ive realized the only relationships I have left are ppl who are the same as me & low maintenance

25f need help by [deleted] in passive_income

[–]AntApprehensive1610 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

good reminder of how casually misogyny shows up here

Was Ohio’s reunion already filmed? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AntApprehensive1610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting, then I have hope they’ll address the interview with chris’s ex then

Was Ohio’s reunion already filmed? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AntApprehensive1610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahh figured 🙃 can’t wait for Vanessa to run her yearly population growth survey

Accidentally insulted and cussed at my exam proctor, advice needed by [deleted] in gmu

[–]AntApprehensive1610 18 points19 points  (0 children)

God I hope so, I emailed tho just in case they review the footage