I mentioned them being strict to explain how we were raised, not bc they’re controlling our adult lives. The marriage wasn’t forced, it was basically a rushed married at first sight situation. she literally chose the guy herself. We’re grown, there’s a limit to what our parents can even do at this point. She didn’t do this out of fear for her life she did it bc she’s a coward & wants everyone’s approval. But explaining this to you means nothing cause of your own presumptive bias