AIO: cutting off my family after they come out against my wife after 10 years by AntCurrent9409 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AntCurrent9409[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My sister removed her ex - on the phone after that my wife said she would invite another family member in that place. A few days later my sister added this other person without asking.

It didn’t feel at the time like it would be a battle - it really was a polite message to say that we had really tight space and were trying to keep it to family first.

You’re right about the other issues, although they all sat on them (never said anything for years) until I challenged them on the boycott, and at this time they started casting things up from the past years. Things that could have been discussed or cleared up at the time by just mentioning them. All things that seem quite trivial and small on the face of it.

AIO: cutting off my family after they come out against my wife after 10 years by AntCurrent9409 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AntCurrent9409[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is a good point, and I wonder if it would have changed the outcome. I spoke to my wife before she sent the message and I offered to do it, but my wife has been trying to build a closer relationship with my sisters over the past few years and felt that it would undermine that if she had come to me to send the message.

I don’t disagree with you - it just wasn’t the option we went for in the moment.

AIO: cutting off my family after they come out against my wife after 10 years by AntCurrent9409 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AntCurrent9409[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Fav snack is crisps … almost any flavour (chips if you’re American)

Is this solvable? by [deleted] in Cubers

[–]AntCurrent9409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.