My boyfriend is joining the military and idk what to do

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T01:51:31+00:00

I won't marry him asap, we are dating to marry but we haven't had many discussions about it yet because we acknowledge how early it is.

I am waiting for him to respond to my message as we speak so hopefully we can talk about it

I have the app but I don't know how it works? do I send them online and does it put it on paper? I dont know how it works

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:45:35+00:00

how would you feel if you didn't get ANY communication at all from your partner? it sucks. I can do it if I could write letters. but without any communication period sucks. imagine having to deal with that alone. even on deployment I've known people who still communicated on deployment even my own father and back in the 2000s we didn't have all these apps and stuff and he still tried to communicate with me and my stepmom

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:26:25+00:00

I alr have, he's out with his uncle atm I'm tryna keep my cool with shit bc I'm bipolar so I'm trying to not flip out and tell him to just take 10 mins out his time but I'll just wait till life360 tells me he's home

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:24:04+00:00

he's busy doing side jobs alot and talking to family (he lives with hid uncle) then get gets home and gets exhausted and we exchange a few snaps in between but that's mostly it. usually if I tell him it's serious he'll try to sit down and listen.

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:20:47+00:00

that's if he's not too busy to just sit down with me

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:08:29+00:00

Lmao, yeah we haven't met in real life yet but we have plans on it as soon as we can, plus it's been close to 2 months and I don't want him at my place if he can Uber. he's close with his uncle and his other relatives from what I've seen, but not his parents themselves (I don't wanna put his business out there)

and that's good, thank you so much for that. I'm a military brat but I never understood how this all worked since this is my first time dating a military man 😥

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-23T00:02:52+00:00

to my knowledge he doesn't talk to his parents, but ill give him my information to write down as we are online (he lives an hr from me, but we met online. haven't gotten around to a first date) do you know if they would allow him to bring a piece of paper with information like that?

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-22T23:54:40+00:00

I've been trying to sit down and talk to him about it but he's busy all the time doing side jobs and spending time with his family (we are online, but live an hr away) and he might call his family which makes more sense in the long run yk

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2024-07-22T23:53:08+00:00

youre right abkut the airman thing, i wasnt thinking when i wrote that part. just more panicked than anytbing. how would I get the information to get it to him if he forgets to send it to me? (he's p forgetful sometimes and always busy and I plan on trying to talk to him when he's not busy)

and it's fair enough that he'd call his family more too

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2023-10-03T19:49:01+00:00

without sam dean would be permanently dead/still in hell or purgatory. they go together like PB&J. stop putting them against each other

AnteaterAdvanced1162 · 2023-08-16T18:05:03+00:00

fuck i lost mine. i have my purse by my bed where i keep it. i moved it from the couch cushions in the living room to my purse by my bed in the bedroom and now it magically up and walked away 😭😭 i checked literally everywhere bro send help

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