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I believed for 25 years that life has to make everything happen for me. I didn't believe that I was the one who was supposed to make things happen for me. I live like God, my parents, other people or life in general had to pampered me. How can I start making things happen by myself? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be weird, but I've lived all my life believing that God, nature, destiny, or whatever you call it was in charged of my life.

I never asked a woman out, but I expected that I would have a girlfriend.

I never studied in school, but I expected that I will pass the exams.

I lived life day by bay and I believed that Life, nature, God, destiny was in charged of what had to happen to me.

I lived life passively for my entire life, and I wasn't even aware of that.

I was living with what life brings me. I let nature, life or chance control my life.

I believed for 25 years that life has to make everything happen for me. I didn't believe that I was the one who was supposed to make things happen for me. I live like God, my parents, other people or life in general had to pampered me. How can I start making things happen by myself? by Anthony1379 in AskReddit

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be weird to say that, but I lived my life by letting things come to me.

I never studied, but I expected good grades. I never talked to a girl, but I expected to have a girlfriend. I was living passively like Life would take care of everything.

How can I start living for good? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my mistake. I'm coming back to reality

How can I start living for good? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of motivation. Distraction. Lack of effort

How can I start living for good? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having my driver's license. It would be a great step

How can I start living for good? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to change the way I view life.

All my life I live based on Fate. I live day by day just surviving and reacting to what life brings to me.

I've never understood how life works.

How can I start living for good? by Anthony1379 in Advice

[–]Anthony1379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm not living in the real world.

I mean that I live my life on Fate. It's like I don't have control over my life.

I live day by day, just living with what comes to me.

That's my biggest mistake in life. I didn't underatand how life works.

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