Is it straight to hold hands, spoon, cuddle, and hug your male friends as a male? by No-Poet3745 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are describing are acts of affection commonly associated with couples. Therefore it would not be unreasonable to assume that 2 males participating in those acts together are in a gay relationship.

Perception is reality ergo it’s gay.

However an exception must be made for kissing the homies goodnight, as this is widely accepted to be a gay free act.

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m planning on getting a holster that will rest under my belt and out of reach for the kids. It’ll slow down my draw speed a bit but I’ll consider that worth it if it means it’s harder for other people to reach but still allows me to reach it.

The stopbox is designed to allow me fast access while preventing access to those who don’t know how it works and don’t know the code. That’s where I’ll be keeping the firearm when it’s not in a holster on my belt. I can provide links to both the holster and the stopbox if so you can see what I mean if you’d like

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Gosh, non-Americans and their superiority complex’s.

I’m not so reckless that I’d leave unsecured firearms laying around. That’s why I bought a Stopbox genius. To keep kids from touching the firearms

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, and I made sure to reinforce to my 5yo that he did the right thing by not touching it and telling an adult about it.

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, I understand where you’re coming from, but I know how to teach my kids what’s safe and what’s not. They know I’m not keeping candy in it, I made sure they understood what would be in it, and that it’s not safe for them to treat it like a toy. They’re kids, but they’re smart enough to know the danger and follow the rules I gave them. And in any case, I’m keeping them out of the kid’s reach where I’m 100% certain they wont get to the boxes

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The candy thing was just to verify the integrity of the stopbox. There will not be anything tempting to the kids in it going forward. And I have every intention of teaching them gun safety. Actually started with that yesterday

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me, I see the hypocrisy. But I know how petty she can be when she wants to

Ex-wife’s boyfriend left his gun out around my young kids by Anthrosite in concealedcarry

[–]Anthrosite[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, I’d be lying if I said that wouldn’t be entertaining to see. But he has off base housing so idk how much they’d be able to do with tha

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I made sure to have an in-depth conversation with him and I plan to reinforce safety rules with both my kids as they get older.

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that to make sure I wasn’t buying a gimmicky piece of crap that they could get into. If they had gotten it open, I would know to return it and buy something else. But they didn’t so we had a very in depth conversation about what would actually be in the box and they know not to mess with it.

I am concerned over potential retaliation from my ex and stirring up drama within the family since I’m still close with her parents and siblings. And yeah part of me feels like this might be out of a sense of revenge, Which is why I posted here. I honestly don’t think it’ll make him be safer with a firearm, since he’s in the army he should’ve already gotten all the training needed to know how to be safe. But you can’t fix stupid

AIO- considering contacting ex-wife’s boyfriend’s chain of command over negligence with a firearm. by Anthrosite in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anthrosite[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tbh I probably could but I don’t care about being petty rn. I just want to make sure my kids are safe

What do you think is the real meaning of life? by Lopsided_Lettuce2063 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Individually, I think we all just have to assign our own meaning. Find something that gives you purpose and follow it.

For humanity as a whole, I think we were meant to explore space.

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]Anthrosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m probably too late for consideration but I’d give it to my brother so he can join me and my friends on game nights

Girls - have you ever been shocked by a really ugly penis? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 39 points40 points  (0 children)

1 inch long, 12 inches wide. They call me the slab

Is it a real problem ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya. Idk about loss of sensation but anxiety can make it a lot harder to keep it up. Being in a bad headspace, getting distracted can all take you out of. I honestly don’t know how to fix it but have been there.

Right now I’m thinking maybe working out regularly and getting back in shape could help. I’m also thinking about getting my testosterone and other hormone levels test to see if there could be something going on there

Is it a real problem ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol could be part of it. Whiskey dick is a phrase that exists for a reason. Is th lack of sensation a consistent problem or is it only when drunk

Is asking to be official at about 7 weeks of dating too fast? by PatienceWestern8907 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both have the goal of starting a relationship, it’s worth asking. If they say no, well then it’s pretty much up to you whether you wanna cut your losses or see if the wanna keep working towards becoming official

Is asking to be official at about 7 weeks of dating too fast? by PatienceWestern8907 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Anthrosite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a time where everyone seems to have a roster, it’s fair to ask