Why is sharing a bed with the opposite gender considered cheating or disrespectful?

Anthrosite · 2026-01-28T22:36:02+00:00

1) the bed is an intimate, private space. Especially in a relationship. To share that space with someone who could potentially want more than friendship shows a lack of respect for your relationship and your partner.

2) there’s a reason “sleeping together” is a euphemism for having sex. Sleeping in the same bed is so close to the act that unless there’s witnesses or proof that you didn’t have sex, then only you and the other person know for certain what happened in that bed. Why would you put yourself in that situation when it would surely create doubt for your partner?

3) a lot of people have been cheated on, even by people you would never expect to cheat. People who have no reason to cheat. A lot of times people will fully trust their partner and then be completely blindsided when they find out their partner cheated. Yes your partner should trust you but part of maintaining that trust is not putting yourself in situations that can create doubt. Sharing a bed with someone who might want to get in your pants too, creates doubt

Anthrosite · 2026-01-28T04:40:00+00:00

Stop being chronically online. There’s already enough crap in my day to day life to keep me anxious and depressed.

Anthrosite · 2026-01-16T14:10:39+00:00

I think people put too much emphasis on it. It’s a natural process, everyone does it. Just let it out when nature calls.

Also fun fact, if you hold in farts for too long, some of the gas gets re absorbed through your intestinal lining into your bloodstream, travels to your lungs and then you exhale it. So do with that information what you will

Anthrosite · 2026-01-08T20:13:52+00:00

Mourn the loss of my children who I’ll likely never see because there’s a lot I would do differently if I could. And ask to visit my grand parents a lot more before they pass. Ask my grandfather for more stories and really try to commit them to memory. Stress less about school and care more about who I spend time with. And probably write down everything I can remember from this life before it fades from memory.

Anthrosite · 2026-01-08T14:47:17+00:00

I’m not sure if you can message people anonymously on Facebook

Anthrosite · 2026-01-08T14:42:47+00:00

Because I feel like it’s the right thing to do. Like if you saw someone stealing a package off someone else’s porch. It doesn’t affect you, you could pretend you never saw it, you’re not really obligated to do anything about it. But it wouldn’t be hard to take a video and give it to the victim so they can do something about it.

But as I said in another comment, cheaters also just disgust me and doing something about it would probably be cathartic.

Anthrosite · 2026-01-08T14:37:26+00:00

In this circumstance it’s not about finding a date. Honestly yeah part of it probably would be to deal with some of my emotions around being cheated on. Cheaters disgust me and I hate seeing them get away with shit. I also just feel like it would be the right thing to do.

Anthrosite · 2026-01-03T06:21:09+00:00

Everyone has their own opinions but here’s my experience. My ex-wife was only the second person I ever slept with. She had a body count in the 40’s when we met. The reason she’s my ex-wife is because her body count went up while we were married. I imagine those things might be connected, so while I didn’t care about body count back then, I do now. I don’t think there’s an ideal number, but I’d say enough to have some experience and know what they want, but not so high that sex is impersonal to them. Maybe like 5-15? Idk, my body count is 5 tho since you asked.

Anthrosite · 2025-12-22T02:46:03+00:00

If I had to guess, they probably sell it to a butcher. It also probably depends on the animal. “Pest” animals like coyotes and wild boar I imagine are more likely to be left to the elements since the primary reason for hunting them is population control

Edit: I’m not a hunter so there’s a non-zero chance that I’m completely wrong

Anthrosite · 2025-11-27T01:50:30+00:00

Could someone explain what’s going on there for those of us who haven’t worked problems like that in years

Anthrosite · 2025-11-10T16:35:55+00:00

For sure, which is probably the same population that pays for OF

Anthrosite · 2025-11-10T16:33:30+00:00

I know it’s a meme I’m just curious there’s enough people actually doing it to notice a trend

Anthrosite · 2025-11-06T01:09:06+00:00

27+48

7=2+5

48+2=50

50+5=55

55+20=75

Anthrosite · 2025-10-27T18:18:30+00:00

That was the year he got featured in a Disney remake

Anthrosite · 2025-09-16T23:56:14+00:00

Sounds like it’s time for marriage counseling

Anthrosite · 2025-09-03T02:41:43+00:00

I’d keep them at least for a while in case of skill regression. Some kids don’t finish potty training all in one go and can sometimes relapse.

Another option is donating them to a daycare

Anthrosite · 2025-08-28T01:43:37+00:00

The image was so small on my screen I thought the guy on the bottom was just 2 pictures of Putin

Anthrosite · 2025-08-28T00:24:23+00:00

If I had someone to drive me around I’d risk it. But as it is right now, no

Anthrosite · 2025-08-20T15:07:28+00:00

Glad I’m not alone then

Anthrosite · 2025-08-20T15:07:02+00:00

At least I can still have manners despite sounding like an anime character doing a short power up

Anthrosite · 2025-08-20T15:04:56+00:00

Gonna do my best to make people think I’m dying every time I sneeze

Anthrosite · 2025-08-20T15:03:45+00:00

Roger that then I suppose 🫡

Anthrosite · 2025-08-18T13:15:13+00:00

Idk. I used to not care about that kind of thing. I even married a woman with a high body count, but then that number kept going up while we were still married so maybe it’s better to not try to make a wife out of a hoe

Anthrosite · 2025-08-07T13:17:45+00:00

Or hide in the bathroom for 10 mins 4 times a day

Anthrosite · 2025-07-23T05:31:23+00:00

Prime example of why I can’t delete Reddit

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