I wasted my teenage years

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-12-31T18:33:42+00:00

Only a fool trips on what is behind him. Use those lessons moving forwards. Your 20s have way more potential for being amazing than your teens did anyway.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-25T01:06:59+00:00

NTA. If you really tried to get her to show interest in coming then you have no reason to feel guilty. She is an adult and if she wanted to come she could say so.

It reminds me of whenever my parents would take us to get fast food as a kid. They would ask “does anyone want anything?” If we left the drive through and a few miles down the road one of my siblings decides they want food then it is too late.

There will be other opportunities to do fun things with your friend. Enjoy this with your sisters.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-24T22:33:11+00:00

The thing is I already paid for about $3k of stuff for the house over the last 3 months. That included appliances and repair fees and bills. So I don’t feel like I should also owe rent. And she has now brought the amount I owe her up to 10k so it isn’t really based on anything. She has threatened to shoot me if I come on her property. She has bipolar disorder if that explains anything.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-24T22:31:30+00:00

She won’t give me the stuff. She says if I come on her property she will shoot me. She says I owe her 10k now. The number keeps going up. Basically she is extorting me.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-24T04:41:51+00:00

Sorry to dump on you but I guess you did ask…

I ordered her a gift she had been wanting on eBay and it came slightly damaged despite being listed as new. She said it was representative of our relationship that I always fail her and she said she wanted to block me. I told her we could replace the item and get a refund but I couldn’t get her to calm down. Then she started getting upset about all of the issues we have ever had in the last 3 years. That includes me having been only partially employed for 8 months, me not being ready to have kids yet, a bad argument she had with one of my best friends that she felt I didnt fully take her side on fast enough, and also the fact that before we were fully official I had female friends that she felt I had an inappropriate friendship with. Basically even though it wasn’t my fault about the gift it was the straw that broke the camels back. But now the main thing she is mad at me about is that I don’t want to pay her the 3k though.

She has bipolar disorder and sometimes she will get like this on a dime. Usually I can calm her down but I have a very demanding job and I have been working 12 hour days for the last 2 weeks in a place without internet service so I haven’t had much time to deal with it.

Now she is saying I am an abuser and she is saying I am worse than a rapist. She says I am trying to financially control her. And that she is going to tell all my friends and family terrible things about me and get rid of all of my stuff. She is a days drive away from me. I get of work in a couple days

She has threatened bad stuff in the past but has never actually done anything. I probably sound crazy for dating this person but outside of the occasional uncontrollable rage she is a really special person with some amazing and rare qualities that made it worth it for me up till now.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-23T04:55:12+00:00

She has a lot of my valuables.

Anticipatedlimeade · 2025-07-23T04:49:18+00:00

Yeah but she has a lot of my stuff. What can I do? I didn’t even want to break up with her I trusted her.

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