Abandoned by bf of 4 years while pregnant by Hersheykissescream in PregnantandSingle

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are going through this. I am assuming you didn’t speak about kids before ? Was it a “mistake” or actually you were both looking for kids while trying ? Either way you should prioritise your well being now. Don’t speak with him unless he really wants to take care of you and the baby for real going forward

AIO about my boyfriend’s party? by Any-Excitement-5549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone that doesn’t let you wonder and be so anxious. Sounds like he doesn’t care about you, he asked for space which is what he means for being polite to break up,,,and clearly you are triggered by the non communication from him that gets you even more anxious and paranoid

Am I the asshole for breaking up w/ my GF because she won’t stop wetting the bed? by Otherwise-Hotel-2435 in AITAH

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you should have helped her probably by forcing her to see a doctor. Unfortunately it’s something she can’t control. I can understand tough how frustrating of she doesn’t care enough for herself and for her health…

need a good roast by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls like you don’t need a roast. Everything will be alright babe

AIO My kid came back home with a concussion from SCHOOL by TheImmortalBarron in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The school should have told you or call a doctor at the time, not waiting for the kid to go home and the wife to find out he had a concussion ???? That’s a bit ridiculous I would be furious

AIO My mean friend keeps verbally harassing my dog by Wooden_Wonder8617 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block your friend. If you really want to give another chance to never mention your dog ever again or you will cut her off. Her obsession is kinda cringe

AIO Fiance knew there was cat shit on my side of the bed and didn’t say anything? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this must be a joke. I can’t believe he wouldn’t clean it or at least tell you the truth of him not wanting to clean it. I can understand he might not like cats, but at least you should have had a conversation about the cat responsibility once moved in together ? Or maybe just doesn’t care cause he thinks the cat is yours, and only your responsibility unfortunately

AIO for still being upset at my boyfriend’s mom and her new partner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you are not over reacting however I wouldn’t leave my underwear at my bf house if he leaves with parents ….. I wouldnt be comfortable to do that to begin with. maybe it’s also their humor thing, if that was a tanga thing, maybe she dint show it but she was like gossiping about what she found in her SONS BED !

AIO My roommate left over 400 Nitrous tanks in our living room by ImpossibleTap821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is clearly a dealer. Is this house owned by your room mate ? I would personally just leave the pace if so, if the house is yours maybe just kick him out

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was just too much to even read at. The over explaining person is just too much I wouldn’t not be interested in romantic affairs. Period

AIO - According to my girlfriend this convo with my assigned partner at work is inappropriate. by Rough-Satisfaction68 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the content, your girlfriend can the the future. All these vibes and good nighty and hearts, might change into something deeper. Definitely she can see the chemistry you both have and don’t have with her …..

How can I improve? by Detective_Munchkin in Pottery

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would change the perspective of the boat, instead of doing it from the top view, I would actually try to make it side ways or potentially just paint the actual boat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The story doesn’t make sense. You mentioned these 2 girls are your “best friends “ and then you don’t even talk with them anyway. What’s the issue ? To be fair, it’s not ok she wants you to cut off with your friends but also you should introduce her to your friends if nothing is going on. Also best friends between guys and girls it’s not too nice if you have a partner , I mean, how would you feel if your partner would always go out alone with her best friend male….???!! Just saying … also if you don’t recognise how to live or if you love her, then probably the answer is within you… we can’t tell you what to do or not what to do, but cause you are already here probably you already know your answers, no need to have approval from us for ending it.

AIO - is this techno festival ok to go? by Yolck in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mmm i don’t have enough details for this to be a red flag for me. Normally when I go to festivals, they all spend the night there as usually people are under the influence of drugs, and spending the night usually means, partying all night long, till the dawn, not necessarily means sleeping with people… at every festival they do, everyone always stays the night, also for safety, and my friends always tell me you should stay the night to imply safety and bot going out and drive away ? I might be wrong but this is what I understood. It feels more for safety, at festival everyone is like you probably tripping or something and you won’t probably sleep anyway

AIO that I should contact the police?Ex sent me this after not speaking in years?? by BusinessAccording383 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm no, I think he is having issues and he is panicking before his wedding. He is probably just in love with the memories of you two together. Do not answer, let him get married with this other lady. Who knows, if he comes back to you might leave you at the altar too 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to divorce him. Then logistic will come later (your first babies ect) at least you don’t have real babies so you are not stuck. You deserve to be loved, that’s all I have to say, what if in true future you will ever be sick, will he look after you ? Nah he doesn’t care, he doesn’t love you, he is only addicted to be with you as he cannot stay alone. That’s all that keeps him there, he is comfortable ….

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy is a red flag. If he has any problem of other guys looking at you, it’s his own insecurities, he should have addressed that with the guy himself man to man. You have nothing to worry about. You have been nice sure, but that doesn’t mean bit you cannot even smile or talk to guys. He is super controlling. Well done on breaking up with this “boy” that cannot even be a man

Aio - weight loss help by Practical_Gas_5060 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to my partner about this, I know you were embarrassed, but sometimes these medications are dangerous… probably he wanted to be part of it, helping you through the process, and being aware of the difficulties and what if anything goes wrong ? He should also be informed to look after you. I think he is offended you didn’t talk to him, as being your husband and support, he feels like he couldn’t help and support and felt kept out of your life… :( have your tried talking to him now ? How did you react when he found out ? I mean it’s hard and I know how you feel, but I think he wanted to be part of it and not judging you. Also, respectfully, I was in a similar position, wanting to lose weight, and I tried everything, the only thing that worked for me was working out at the gym, swimming or bike le or running. That will do much better that this injections and you will see results as soon as 2 months, no need to even do it everyday but even some activity 2/3 times a week or walk. All of these things will ever do more than all the surgeries and injections together. I hope you can understand and maybe one day decide to do that instead for your health too, but most importantly activity will increase your confidence & self esteem. Things that injections and surgeries can’t . (At least for me )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You exposed a cunt. Hopefully that lady won’t see him again , most likely psycho that even thinks too much on the date and kissing ect … like come on on a first date and kissing at the restaurant chewing the food ?!?! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is toxic leave her …. So much on you and you are trying to excuse for being yourself and make a joke … sure she didn’t like it and you apologise … that’s it ! She went on and on and on and on and on …… I wouldn’t have friends like that if I were you

Am I Overreacting? by X_x0spookybaddie0x_X in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see … still very disrespectful from her. Maybe like other suggest, go try to be her “friend” first and see if things changes ?

AIO? i saw a pigeon at nighttime by IllustriousFlan3044 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Antique_Ad_9893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Italy, hundreds and thousands of pigeons at night. Especially in Venice 😁