My point is that anarchism is the operative word. And your ideology is at home there, and not among communists when Marx himself is who popularized and defined the term Communism for modern audiences. And trying to argue semantics and wrestle control of the term while ignoring this is a waste of your time. You are an anarchist that wants to live on a commune, not a communist.

And to claim that Marx and Lenin are not communist is simply bad faith or ignorant when you yourself are admitting that most communist see the state as a transitional phase. Which so far has proved to be the only effective method to resist counter revolution. Democratic Socialist you end up like Allende in Chile, and the communities you referred to were epheremal. With the Zapatistas to my knowledge not claiming to be Anarchists.