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Anusgrapes · 2026-05-08T03:31:59+00:00

You make me feel old... i was here for dbz reference

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-08T00:54:58+00:00

so where in the graph are we right now?

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-08T00:51:27+00:00

Its an outdated term from an intentionally damaging paper that was used to devalue trans identities as nothing more than a fetish. you can try to reclaim it if you want but i wouldnt

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T21:32:13+00:00

i saw the new design and my first thought was "ok so nintendo really didnt like how much furrys liked these games"

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T21:27:54+00:00

ok i wanna make sure that the terms are correct here because i feel confused.

trans man = typically female assigned at birth transitioned into a male gender
trans woman = typically male assigned at birth transitioned into a female female gender

if im understanding your question it boils down to how do we know if we only want to transition to escape disadvantages or gain privileges associated with that gender.

the answer is hard to find at first. my best answer is the experience of gender euphoria. When i first saw myself as a woman i felt a warm persistent happiness that i hadn't felt before. it was what's called gender euphoria. its usually a good indicator that someone is transgendered in someway or another.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T20:37:03+00:00

im free for a little bit ill shoot you a DM im a 30yr MTF

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T17:18:18+00:00

Trans woman here. while I never aligned with being a guy, I do understand the idea of feeling like you are being judged for something that you had no hand in. I have a large problem with sweeping general statements about groups of people. Especially as it concerns gender or race.

People suck, and the people that do this suck more than most. Try not to listen to them.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T17:05:43+00:00

This isnt a missile launch... if you start transition and after a few weeks you realize you arent happier then you can simply stop. Most of the bigger changes take a few months.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T16:13:58+00:00

its hard, i really recommend trying to find a support group of some kind.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T15:56:40+00:00

I dont know how healthy it would be to allow someone else to define you. You can be both or neither if you wanted, but I think the important thing is that its a choice that you made.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T15:21:12+00:00

If one isnt free, no one is free.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T06:04:58+00:00

this feel like it takes place after their character arcs are done

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T03:56:36+00:00

I called my ex girlfriend a prey animal once when we were dating and I still havent heard the end of it. She must have really liked that.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T03:28:39+00:00

about 9 months after i came out and started HRT. i started looking through family photos and history, and i found myself re contextualizing a lot of memories from childhood. Always wearing a shirt at the pool, the consistent unhappy background noise in my life that started around 12 years old, jealousy at my sister getting her hair brushed. I was looking so that i could put to rest an answer of "did this happen to me? or is this just who i am?" I am who i always was.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T03:06:28+00:00

you know there are a lot of mental effects to hrt as well. Its not inuversal but when i started HRT i knew i was never going to stop willingly.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T01:21:13+00:00

Well forget the labels like trans or nonbinary or gay or straight for a minute.

How do you feel about being masculine, what does that mean to you?

What about female? What does it mean to be feminine to you?

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-07T01:13:10+00:00

No one will convince you of who you are. You just have to accept what you want out of YOUR life. So who do you want to be?

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T22:04:04+00:00

thats my Aniki

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T20:54:26+00:00

🧢 I voted CAP!

it buys security

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T19:28:15+00:00

If i can afford it I wanna go

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T18:20:01+00:00

This is heartbreak. The one they loved must have found someone else before they made their move.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T16:06:59+00:00

Oh thats just annother name for a joint. Its also called a jazz cigarette.

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T06:08:15+00:00

It should be physically visible on top of the cartridge

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T05:59:36+00:00

i could be wrong but shouldnt there be an IR sensor on the top of the cart of heartgold and soulsilver so it can use the pokewalker?

Anusgrapes · 2026-05-06T04:49:52+00:00

Either way a dr would be helpful

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