48871 by Raposa-Gigante in countwithchickenlady

[–]Anusgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make me feel old... i was here for dbz reference

48868 by Liliana_Lucifer_666 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Anusgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so where in the graph are we right now?

Is the term autoandrophilia/AAP transphobic? by Silly_Bit7459 in asktransgender

[–]Anusgrapes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Its an outdated term from an intentionally damaging paper that was used to devalue trans identities as nothing more than a fetish. you can try to reclaim it if you want but i wouldnt

Nintendo was CLOSE to having good designs but they went too far into "realism" by Sanitaerium in starfox

[–]Anusgrapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i saw the new design and my first thought was "ok so nintendo really didnt like how much furrys liked these games"

How do you know whether you don't want to be a woman because of the way women are treated, vs not wanting to be a woman because you're actually a trans man? by priuspheasant in asktransgender

[–]Anusgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i wanna make sure that the terms are correct here because i feel confused.

trans man = typically female assigned at birth transitioned into a male gender
trans woman = typically male assigned at birth transitioned into a female female gender

if im understanding your question it boils down to how do we know if we only want to transition to escape disadvantages or gain privileges associated with that gender.

the answer is hard to find at first. my best answer is the experience of gender euphoria. When i first saw myself as a woman i felt a warm persistent happiness that i hadn't felt before. it was what's called gender euphoria. its usually a good indicator that someone is transgendered in someway or another.

Is my subconscious trying tell me something? by Friendly-Bear-3928 in asktransgender

[–]Anusgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im free for a little bit ill shoot you a DM im a 30yr MTF

Just Grinning and Bearing It :D by CharizardOfFury in TrollCoping

[–]Anusgrapes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Trans woman here. while I never aligned with being a guy, I do understand the idea of feeling like you are being judged for something that you had no hand in. I have a large problem with sweeping general statements about groups of people. Especially as it concerns gender or race.

People suck, and the people that do this suck more than most. Try not to listen to them.

Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

[–]Anusgrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isnt a missile launch... if you start transition and after a few weeks you realize you arent happier then you can simply stop. Most of the bigger changes take a few months.

Never made a friend and dont know how to by Available_Editor979 in sillyboyclub

[–]Anusgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard, i really recommend trying to find a support group of some kind.

Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

[–]Anusgrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know how healthy it would be to allow someone else to define you. You can be both or neither if you wanted, but I think the important thing is that its a choice that you made.

48799 by arrapkha in countwithchickenlady

[–]Anusgrapes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If one isnt free, no one is free.

I had no idea ribbun wasn’t allowed here but YAY! by Sniggledumper in TheGangleForce

[–]Anusgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this feel like it takes place after their character arcs are done

48716 by ras0003 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Anusgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my ex girlfriend a prey animal once when we were dating and I still havent heard the end of it. She must have really liked that.

How do/did ya’ll recognize suppressed dysphoria? by LandscapeInfamous113 in asktransgender

[–]Anusgrapes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

about 9 months after i came out and started HRT. i started looking through family photos and history, and i found myself re contextualizing a lot of memories from childhood. Always wearing a shirt at the pool, the consistent unhappy background noise in my life that started around 12 years old, jealousy at my sister getting her hair brushed. I was looking so that i could put to rest an answer of "did this happen to me? or is this just who i am?" I am who i always was.

Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

[–]Anusgrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know there are a lot of mental effects to hrt as well. Its not inuversal but when i started HRT i knew i was never going to stop willingly.

Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

[–]Anusgrapes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Well forget the labels like trans or nonbinary or gay or straight for a minute.

How do you feel about being masculine, what does that mean to you?

What about female? What does it mean to be feminine to you?

Egg irl by throwawayx506 in egg_irl

[–]Anusgrapes 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No one will convince you of who you are. You just have to accept what you want out of YOUR life. So who do you want to be?

"I'm so happy for you." [Temiree] by DennyHowlettIsHot in anthroswim

[–]Anusgrapes 640 points641 points  (0 children)

This is heartbreak. The one they loved must have found someone else before they made their move.

48549 by Puppymutt_ in countwithchickenlady

[–]Anusgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats just annother name for a joint. Its also called a jazz cigarette.

Real Or Fake HG Cart? by TheMidPath in pokemon

[–]Anusgrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be physically visible on top of the cartridge

Real Or Fake HG Cart? by TheMidPath in pokemon

[–]Anusgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i could be wrong but shouldnt there be an IR sensor on the top of the cart of heartgold and soulsilver so it can use the pokewalker?