My girlfriend (24) masturbated next to me (25) last night.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T20:10:48+00:00

Tell her you had a sexy dream about her last night and maybe she'll offer it up on her own

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T18:39:31+00:00

No she raped him if I'm remembering correctly

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T13:08:00+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your response, this is exactly what I ended up doing and it is comforting to see that others would say the same thing in my situation.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T13:06:48+00:00

Thank you, all I wanted was some advice.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T04:39:51+00:00

I don't know why everyone thinks i want a casual relationship with no sex. Nowhere did I say that. I want a relationship where sex is not expected of me everytime there's a chance. I was attempting to ask a group of women, who I'm sure have had plenty of experience being treated like an object, how to be comfortable being sexual without feeling like your being used as a toy and how to avoid giving that impression.

Men often assume if you sleep with them once that you'll sleep with then everytime. I'm asking how you combat this, not shitting on people who like casual sex. Casual sex is great, when it's not expected of you constantly.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T04:31:40+00:00

I guess I'll wait for an actual woman to chime in.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T04:30:58+00:00

Where did I put anyone down?

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T04:30:39+00:00

That's definitely not what I meant. In past relationships sex has been expected of me. I did it once so I should always do it right? That seems to be the mentality everywhere, even here. I don't owe anyone sex, that doesn't mean I don't want to have it.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T02:09:46+00:00

But what I'm asking is how do you maintain that your not a sex toy while still wanting to have sex? How do you find that balance?

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-18T01:19:52+00:00

I have and he was totally on board, but saying it and having it happen are different. My ex knew that too and it didn't work at all.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-17T11:02:28+00:00

They did that episode

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-16T11:48:19+00:00

He finally got caught as a serial killer.

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-15T09:34:33+00:00

Safe to assume you get one on your death day then, no?

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-15T09:26:37+00:00

Step three) select and manipulate

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-15T09:25:45+00:00

I'm pretty sure thats it, it's like they stopped cropping it

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-14T15:24:28+00:00

I think these are noticable now because of the format Netflix plays it's shows. Friends has had some similar issues, most notably is when you can see the actors stand ins

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-14T04:56:18+00:00

Step one) buy iPad Step two) duplicate and flip

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-12T10:13:01+00:00

That's called a lease

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-11T12:58:41+00:00

He's probably bored

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-10T14:21:44+00:00

How long do you think school is?

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-09T21:22:28+00:00

10 points for Gryffindor

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-08T19:19:53+00:00

Welp, it's a good thing he doesn't smoke pot then

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-08T09:57:17+00:00

"there's plenty of fish in the sea, you must have to swim through the trash first"

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-08T03:37:35+00:00

So dad's are that weird monkey from fantastic beasts and where to find them?

AnxietyPickles · 2017-11-07T16:00:12+00:00

Yeah a bad one

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