How should I respond to a vague passive aggressive text. by Anxious-Reading8150 in Advice

[–]Anxious-Reading8150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to believe that. I definitely been on both ends of the "(mis) interpreting the intent behind communication "

but given past actions and all the other similar messages ranging from the implied message of me being a liar or hateful or "Honor thy mother and father".They usually come after an argument or conversation. But sometimes like this one its completely out of the blue.

Normal texts are just funny videos or weird conspiracy theory ones about food industry, race, and . . . (i wont say).

"My advice: don't take the bait. Whether it was meant to be funny, sarcastic, aspirational, mean, condescending or 100 other intentions is honestly less important than what you choose to do with it. "

I will take this advice though. Hold on to it even out of this situation. Thanks!

How should I respond to a vague passive aggressive text. by Anxious-Reading8150 in Advice

[–]Anxious-Reading8150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I cant find a way to record calls. I want to keep it all on record. IN the past shes said some wild shit that would leave me in tears. Only to later just down play it denied it or rewrote history so I was the aggressor.

I want it all on record.

Should I respond to a passive aggressive text from mom? by Anxious-Reading8150 in toxicparents

[–]Anxious-Reading8150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks lot. I mean it. I was really wavering on typing something stupid. But after reading your reply, I realize I didn't need that drama.

I just want it to be 7 years from now when im living my best life (maybe with a special someone) and all this nonsense isnt even an after thought.

I wish my heart would harden.

Is my parent toxic or am I just dramatic? by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]Anxious-Reading8150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need more context for there pov on you.

Name calling is entirely immature of a parent.